HELP!!!!! Cold feet...

hi . just wanted to say...OMG ....... As i read this i was amazed, because i am having my surgery on the 28th of november(4 more days) and I have been having the SAME thoughts!! OMG.. let me tell you, i know what u mean when u say about your youngins..I only have my one (which 25th, tommorrow is his 7th birthday), and i tell you, i cannot handle these fears...I HAVE TO GIVE IT TO GOD< AND KNOW HE WILL TAKE CARE OF ME> and YOU HAVE TO DO THE SAME THING. we are gonna make it! We have come too for now...Our new life is just about to begin..It is time for us to shine! so lets go into this thing wih all we got and know that GOD is right here beside us.He is not going to let us down! He has provided us this opportunity, and WE WILL SURVIVE!!!! Good luck and know that i will keep you in my prayers and you do the same for me.... i need it!...... Keep in touch..