well i had my surgery on ...

well i had my surgery on the first, i had it open, only i am having a problem, my stomach has yet to heal, the top part were i had my staples are healing great but the bottom part is still open and weeping... anyone else exserience this??? my stomach muscles still hurt, i have to rely on everyone to help me still, i am able to change my 2 year olds butt (she wants to be potty trained now and i can't lift her up) so i am doing the diaper thing for a few more weeks.... i can stand long enough to do a few dishes and then need to take a break, it feels like iam getting winded, my back hurts if i sit to long.... i am doing great on the lossing side, i have lost 27 lbs total... lossing more everday (or i hope).. the food thing is going okay, i am just basicly sticking to soups.. or preeed chicken noodle soup.... Has anyone else bein in this boat and how long did it take you to heal.

I had my surgery on the 1 st as well and am not back to mysef yet either. My back hurts alot if I sit too and the same for standing too long. But the best thing to do for all of that is to WALK

I also had my surgery on the first, and you could be writing my story. I have no energy at all, incision still not healed up, winded very easily. I guess we just need to give it some more time, our bodies will heal at their own speed. That being said.... I was just sitting here feeling sorry for myself when I read your post! I don't know about you, but it makes me feel better to know that it's not just me, that we all feel this way at first.