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Topic: RE: Poor Choices
You are so right! I hope this does help someone else besides myself. I know there are a lot of lurkers that read but never post!
TGIF!!!!!!
Jen
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Topic: RE: Poor Choices
I know we can do it. The first step is that I realize it is happening. I am doing well today. I am just going to take it one day at a time. I brought my lunch to work with me so I wouldn't go home and be tempted. I brought a turkey, cheese low carb wrap with some yogurt. I have drank about 30 oz of decaf tea so far. I also have 2 bottles of water to drink after lunch... around 2 pm and then I will treat myself to a few Quaker Chili & cheese baked quakes rice cakes. MMMM they are good. For Dinner I am cooking chicken breast and green beans possibly a little salad too.
I have been exercising at Curves every other day and I think that is what is helping me not gain weight. I still have about 60 pounds to lose... thats a lot! I needed to lose atleast 200 when I started this journey. So 60 pounds... I can do it. I just need you guys to encourage me and let me know what I am going through is NORMAL! I feel like I am a WLS flunky and I don't want or need to feel this way. I couldn't imagine a few years down the road and needing to have this surgery again. I don't want that. I have done so well and my family is so proud of me.
Today the HEAD HUNGER is driving me nuts but I have not givin in!!!!! I am looking forward to lunch however... 25 minutes. This website has helped me forget about it for a while.
Encouragement is what we all need. Support too!
Thanks so much.... Jen
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Topic: RE: Poor Choices
Jennifer,
I don't think you are alone. But like Janet said, as long as you don't make it a daily choice. Having a fry every once in a while is ok. Having them every day is bad. I refer to my pre-op classes material to remind me of what I should be eating every once in a while. I too am making bad choices. And as soon as I realize it, I try to do better with my next meal.
On the board slowness, I agree it has slowed down but it is only as strong as our members make it. It all starts with me (you). I started the question of the week post for the same reason, I wanted to see more activity here. I think that now is when the real work is begining with us. Maintaining and trying to not slip into old habits is going to take alot of support. And I think posting your issue will help others realize that they are not the only ones dealing with them. So keep posting your own questions and concerns. You never know who you are helping that is going through the same thing.
Melissa
Topic: RE: My 1 yr anniversary
Hey Jen,
Thanks for the reply. I agree this forum has slowed down. You're probably right. Our lives are so much better now that we all have so much more to do than sit in front of the computer. Which is a good thing. I am guilty of not checking in more often.
~Angel
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Topic: RE: My 1 yr anniversary
Sharonda.. Happy Anniversary!!!
So we are surgery twins! Cool!
Keep up the good work and have a great 2nd year!
God Bless
~Angel
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Topic: RE: SOOOOO THANKFUL ON ANNIVERSARY
Hi Jo,
Happy Anniversary!
We are surgery twins. The same day surgery. I agree with you, it has been a really wonderful journey. I hope your 2nd year goes just as well for you!
By the way, I've been on a plateau for 3 months now as well.
God Bless,
~Angel
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Topic: RE: Poor Choices
I understand where you are coming from! I just read a post from someone who had RNY i***** and is now considering having a lap band on top of that. I really really don't want to be in that situation in 10 years!!! But, I keep thinking to myself if I keep making bad choices, that is going to be me! I think just being aware of the poor choices and being willing to make the change is the first step in the right direction!! I have been very lax on food journaling lately and I think that makes it easier for me to put food in my mouth that I otherwise wouldn't because I don't have to write it down on paper or think about it later!!! I'm going to get out my pouch rules for dummies and follow that to the tee!! I still have 10 pounds to loose and don't want to jeopardize all this hard work I have done over the past year, just for some stupid Halloween candy or a cookie or what ever else I may stuff in my mouth without really thinking!!!! Good luck to you!! WE CAN DO IT!!!!! A
Topic: RE: Poor Choices
Thanks so much Janet! I'm upset that not as many people post on this forum anymore!
Have a great weekend!
Jen
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