Hey Susan, That is a great side benefit! I know that my husband and I have really enjoyed a lot better sex life. And I know a lot has to do with already losing so much weight, but I think another part of it is that I am more comfortable with myself. We have been together since I weighed maybe 160ish and then I doubled in size so I never thought that would have been an issue with us. But I think it really was a problem that I had in my head. Know what I mean? So I agree it is another great benefit Michelle 311/204/165

Hi folks! So, I've been nervous about several things since I am going to go and attend my brother's wedding in a couple of days which requires me to travel from the midwest to the west coast. Besides me being concerned/worried/recognizing my health limitations about existing health issues, I also have specific WLS worries and I was hoping that some of you may have some tips. Some of my 'worries' are dealing with family inquires regarding my weight loss/health, my change in eating habits (like not drinking while eating, only taking a couple of bites during a course, etc.) and what I will actually be able to eat while traveling. Family: I've only told a handful of friends and family that I've had surgery and I made them promise not to gossip or 'spread' the news. However, that doesn't mean that they followed my request. I've been heavy for the majority of my life and I am a lot thinner than the last time most of these people have seen me. I'm not close and/or I'm not on friendly terms with half of my family and I don't want them to know I had surgery as its not any of their business and typically any personal news about me they use to say crap about me, to make them feel superiour, to make jokes, etc. I don't want to lie, I'm morally against lying, plus I'm a horrible liar. So, anyone have suggestions for how to handle inquiries, jerks, etc. and avoid lying, denying, etc.? I just want to be prepared as that makes me emotionally stronger and I'm going to do my best to avoid the creeps that unfortunately for me are family members. Food: I will be bringing protein bars and drink mixes and be staying with my aunt who had the RNY surgery over a year ago. I'm just concerned when I go to the wedding what to do as it's going to be various dishes over several courses and that's a long time to go without drinking and it will definately show my eating habits (which is fine- I'm just concerned about not having liquids for the majority of the day). Any suggestions? Thanks so much- sorry if this is a rambling post! (I'm posting this as urgent as I'm leaving shortly and would love any advice) Jennifer N

OMG!! I busted my butt mulching this weekend and managed to lose 3lbs this week! I tried on a pair of size 14 jeans that I've had in my drawer for literally 11 years (why did I save them anyway???) and they fit! I could even zip and button them! Finally, a major goal reached. I'm really happy! Hope you all had a great weekend! Debbie

Are you getting any people intrested in your new support group. I would attend if it was closer. About 300 miles round trip...abit much. I hope it is go for the group. Sandy in Tucson Trish I am goinlg to attend the St. Lukes thing on Thrus night. It is for people 3 months out or more. It is 2 different support groups one right after the other at the hospital. I have never attended any support groups at hospital. Are they any good? I do hope so. Sandy