Why so down??

mcgreen
on 4/20/05 3:31 am - Honey Brook, PA
Hey family, I'm 5 1/2 months out - surgery on 11/4/04. I've lost 62lbs of the 110 that I would like to shed (not so bad) and I'm exercising about 5 days a week. I'm doing pretty well so why do I feel so down about things? Don't get me wrong, I'm not always blue but in the last few days I've been feeling a little down in the dumps and - ok, I'll say it, dumpy! Since the surgery this is the first time I've felt bad about myself. I can't help but look in the mirrow and see MY HIPS shouting back at me!! I look much better but I'm still looking blobby. I need something to get my spirits back up and to get my head back in the right place. I should be feeling good about my accomplishment, not bad about how much farther I have left to go - right?? Some smiles from you guys would make me feel better! You guys are the best by the way - really!! Debbie
llyra
on 4/20/05 5:45 am - Aurora, IL
Hope you feel better
Paula364
on 4/21/05 5:28 am - Loves Park, IL
Debbie, Girl,Keep your head up!!take out a pair of old(fat ) clothes and realize where you've come from I know that there's no way I could have lost this weight w/o surgery.I'm so thankful everyday that I went through this surgery. here's some smiles for ya and Congrats for your loss Paula
Summer
on 4/21/05 1:30 pm - Home sweet home, CA
Oh Debbie my surgery twin!!! I'm so sorry you are feeling down!!! You know it's common...up and down!! I was feeling down about two weeks ago and I think it's because the honeymoon is over. The weight isn't falling off anymore and I think I started unconsciously worrying I'd be fat again!! or I'd never reach goal!! I went to a few OH gathering and hung out with some very happy people of all sizes and some how just my being around some of my OH friends I started to feel better. So pick a funny friend and go do something a lil crazy...try an amumement park or throw a party...Maybe just maybe ???? it'll help!! We are all here for you and want the best for you!!! If you were in CA I'd come kidnap you for a fun day out!! Take Care my friend!!! Summer
lovinlifenow
on 4/23/05 12:47 am - East Lansing, MI
try to put on clothes that are more form fitting too.........sometimes we have been so used to hiding in our clothes....and all of a sudden when you see a nice shape rather than that tent effect....it can make a big difference in your attitude.......take a walk and enjoy the sun.........! hug rae
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