What do you do about the unwanted attention?
I know that a certain amount of attention is expected following weight loss of this magnitude. Especially from people that I see everyday. In my job, I am at the hosptial where I had my surgery almost daily. So all the employees comment on the change. That part doesn't really bother me. I have a problem with people that I really don't know very well who feel they need to touch me or hug me. A simple WOW would suffice...lol. I have near strangers putting their hands on me, or making me "model" for them. "Turn around so I can take a good look at you." I my mind I'm saying, "Do I know you?" I don't want to be rude or anything, and I am proud of my accomplishments, but this goes a little beyond. Any suggestions?
I understand what you're saying. From friends I can handle it, but when people I barely know start touching me, that's just too weird. I guess the weirdest one though was from a minister. He put his arm around me one day at church and whispered in my ear, "You're looking really good." Kind of gave me the heebie jeebies.