I posted this back in May, thought it might be a good reminder! Hope you are all having a wonderful day! It's COLD here in NW PA!! STOP THE WEIGHT GAIN I have a few personal tips that have worked for me and may help all of us WLS veterans who are having issues with regaining the weight. First of all I refuse to EVER get back to where I was. So I make sure that I do the following. OK so I don't do it all every day (especially the exercise) but these are tips that will help you get the weight off and allow you to recognize where your problem lies. 1. The first thing is weigh you a minimum of once a week daily if possible (I get on the scale every day sometimes twice a day).You can not fool the scale. I have been overweight all of my life. I know that when I avoid the scale it is because of what went into my mouth. You just can't avoid the truth once you get on the scale. NO matter what I eat I make it a point to get on that scale every single day. 2. Check out your protein supplements. Being out of surgery over a year we can eat normal size portions. If you are taking in protein supplements you may be taking in just too many calories in the course of a day. A 300 calorie protein bar at our stage of WLS should be a meal replacement and not a snack. 3. Fluid load before meals. You don't want to do this unless you are a WLS veteran of at least a year. Fluid loading is drinking water as quickly as possible in order to fill your pouch. Gulp as much water as you can in about 30 seconds. Continue to take swallows of water until you reach a feeling of fullness. You will quickly learn how much water you need to reach that full feeling. This feeling can last up to 25 minutes. 4. Drinking with meals. Do not drink with your meals or 30 minutes after meals. Drinking while you eat pushes out the food and you may eat more. Drinking to soon after a meal pushes the food out and you will get hungry quicker. 5. Carbonated Beverages & Zero calorie beverages. This is a controversial issue. My doc says if you can stand the gas go ahead and drink the carbonated beverages. However, research has proven that successful WLS patients avoid carbonated beverages. Watch the beverages you are drinking be sure they contain zero calories! 6. DO NOT GRAZE This can be a biggie! Such an easy habit to fall into be sure to have plenty of healthy snacks on hand. I love to snack on fresh veggies and fruits. (I really convinced my self of thisJ 7. Drink plenty of water. We all know that we are supposed to drink eight 8 oz glasses of water a day. How many of us really get all our water in? This is important! 8. Do not o become famished or deprive yourself and have protein at each meal. Always consume the protein first then your veggies and then your carb. Don't deprive yourself if you need a treat go ahead and have a small portion you will be surprised just how little of something will satisfy you. 9. Exercise Yes we should all be exercising at least 30 minutes every day. However, I am very guilty for not following this recommendation. But I swear I will be getting back on tract. 10. Attend support group meetings. This is so important I facilitate a Bariatric support group meeting at our local hospital once a month and I learn something new every month. Nothing like getting support from your peers. 11. Keep a food journal. If you're still having issues and your not losing or maintaining your weight then start to write down everything you eat. I mean everything not only what you consume at meal time. You will be surprised just how many calories you consume in the course of the day especially if you're a grazer!

dont worry Donna, you are certainly not alone. never ever has my a$$ been so sore!!!!!!!!! i am like an old lady when i get up from the office chair, from the couch at home, from the kitchen stool. the only place where i can sit comfortably is the toilet pot, cos there is no pressure on the ****yx (did i spell that right?) last night i had totally enough and got myself some volaten ointment. problem is that i use a bidet (a water contraption to since my bum after i use the loo) and the cream would run down and burn my vagigi (as oprah calls it ) this morning i woke up, i was lying flat on my tummy, and it felt as if my hips was locked in pain. so much for the voltaren helping ... a lady in my support group had a similar problem and she used to walk around with a donut cushion. at the time we thought it was very funny ... i was not too keen to go to the doctor in case he wanted to stick his fingers up (EEEEWWWWWW) but now i am getting desperate ... i dont want to use pain tablets cos that things can really blow me up.

Hi Donna, You are not alone.. I have tail bone issues.. It pokes out and hurts after a while... My son thinks I am crazy.. lol. I would buy a donut but I would die to take it to work.. Let me know how it works for yea... Either that or butt implants.... Luvs and Hugs! Tiff

DEAR OCTOBER SISTERS, I THOUGHT LONG AND HARD BEFORE POSTING THIS, WHY YOU MAY ASK ? BECAUSE IT'S SUCH A CRAZY SUBJECT, A SORE BEHIND. NOT FROM ANY MEDICAL PROBLEM LIKE HEMORRHOIDS OR POLUPS, BUT A SORE, PAINFUL BUTT AFTER SITTING TO LONG. I FIRST NOTICED THIS A FEW MONTHS AGO AFTER SITTING IN MY RECLINER WHILE WATCHING A MOVIE. I SHIFTED TO GET A LITTLE MORE COMFORTABLE AND OMG, DID THE BEHIND HURT. I THOUGHT I HAD SAT ON SOMETHING OR THAT A SPRING HAD SPRUNG, BUT NO, IT WAS JUST MY BUTT. WHEN I MENTIONED IT ALL I GOT WERE BELLY LAUGHS, FROM BOTH MY SISTER AND MY CO-WORKERS. THEY THOUGHT IT WAS HILARIOUS. NOW I KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO GET A BED SORE, CAN YOU SAY PAINFUL? WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT I'D MISS SOME OF THAT JUNK IN THE TRUNK. I'M READY TO GO THE PURCHASING DEPT AT WORK AND GET A DONUT RING. HAS ANY ONE ELSE EXPERIENCED TNIS PHENOM? OR AM I THE REGULAR ODD BALL OUT. DONNA, SFY

What a wonderful feeling...sitting in a chair with room to spare!