*blush* thanks!! It will be great to have something done with this mop. Not to mention just changing the way I feel about myself and my look. CANT WAIT!! Thanks so much!! *huggles* Felicia =0)

Girlllllllllllllll so I so feel your pain. I finally spent one whole evening in Walmart trying on bras. They either let the girls fall out the bottom, had flat wrinkly cups, They just flattened me out, to small in the arm holes but HUGE every where else you name it. I finally was about to decide to go "back to the 60's and 70's" and free boob it as I was so discouraged!! I finally tried on a Playtex bra with an under wire : http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5811784 It has nice wide sides so it helps with the bulging. 3 hook closure. and the girls stand up and look pretty lol. Now I know this particular bra doesn't go up to a 50 ( 44 I believe ) but you can at least see what it looks like and that might help. I find now that I have to have the underwire or they girls just flop out the bottom no matter what I try. It also seems to keep them put when I bend over as they tend to flop out the top of a lot of them to *sigh*. Woman Within is having a huge bra sale (I love love love their bras) http://www.womanwithin.com/plus-size-Bras.aspx?DeptId=9592 might peek there and see what they have. You will be dropping out of that 50 in no time so at least you wont have to spend a lot on it. Anyways thats my 3 cents on the bra. As for the second issue. If you find something I would LOVE to hear about it. I have tried on just about everything I can get my hands on and its either TOO constricting or not a enough support. Not long enough on the thighs or cuts me off at the waist. I would love to find something to pull in the saddle bags and the tummy and not have to have two people help me get into the darn thing. I have tried slimmers and suckers and tuckers and control tops and well if its hanging on the "it will control this body part" shelf I tried it. Nothing so far *sigh*. I don't want to suck it in to fit in smaller clothes. Just control the wiggle from jiggling so badly. When I wear jeans its not so bad as I just make sure they are non stretch type but any other pants or shorts WHOA wiggling my jiggling is the way it goes. I hope you find something! I would LOVE to find something like this http://www.womanwithin.com/clothing/3-pack-capri-liner.aspx?PfId=110021&DeptId=9442&Produc tTypeId=1&PurchaseType=0 but with some actual SUPPORT in it. The ones that are cut right above the knee just didn't work for me as they rolled or cut off my smooshy thighs and I had a line. Good luck to you!! I have found that finding undergarments that actually fit and do the job has been the WORST part of this journey for me so far. *HUGGLES* Felicia =0)

Thanks so much, Aime! Lisa

OOo... Look who is getting ready to step out in the looking fantastic aisle!!!!! I am so so proud of you. Look how far youhave come in 10 months!!!! Way to go sweetie!

Hi Felicia.. I rarely post but I'm still right there with you girl. It's harder these days because people keep telling me I must be done losing. Basically I look so thin in my face and neck that it's a big difference to folks, but I'm still 50 lbs from goal and wearing size 16 so we're not talking skinny here. My father actually said he didn't think I should lose anymore (something he has NEVER said to me in my entire life!!). I think it's just such a drastic change from when I was size 30. I'll try to stop in more often on this board and see what's happening cause it is tougher as you go lower, especially if no one seems to be on the same journey, but please know you are definitely not alone. ... Pat