Just spoke with Deanne's husband....
Girls...
I don't know how to write this.
Joe just called and wanted me to let everyone know that Deanne passed away last night around 7:30. He said he'd been out to the store to get dog food and had just come home and found her. He said she wasn't coherent when he found her, but was still breathing at that time....and then just slipped away. He said it was like she was holding on till he got home to be with her when she died. He said he was thankful he was the one who found her and got to be with her those last moments.
I asked about the boys. He said the older one understands what has happened, but the younger one really doesn't understand right now. He says they are all fine. I asked if we could do anything for them and he said no, just that he wanted us to know.
I feel so awful. I thought about Deanne often, but didn't call. Now I wish I had. I regret not speaking with her when I had the chance. Even with all that was happening in her life, she was such a beautiful person, such a ray of sunshine. Every minute we spent talking was precious. I will miss her so very much.
Strange, isn't it, how someone I've never met has touched my life so deeply and will be missed so much.
Hold your loved ones close and tell them you love them. Call your friends and tell them too. It's true that we don't say "I called too often" or "I told them I loved them too much"....we only regret what we don't do or say.....
And, if y'all don't already know....I love each and every one of you very much. You've enriched my life and I feel I'm a better person for "knowing" all of you.
Susan
Susan thank you for letting us know. I am beyond speechless and heart broken for not only her but for her family. I can not imagine what they are having to deal with right now. My thoughts are with them all. She was a beautiful person.
I just don't know what to say. To say the least I am in total shock.
Again thank you for letting us know.
Felicia
Wow this is such a shame. I feel so bad for her children and family. My thoughts and prayers are with them.
Thank you for keeping us up to date.
Tara
PS I agree completely. My immediate family lives half a country away and I believe this group has been a surrogate family for me. Thank each and every one of you for all the kind words and support. We never take the time to tell people how feel until it is too late.
Susan,
Thank you for letting all of us know, My heart has sunk and my breath taken away by the news. My heart and prayers are with her family. The loss of a loved one is never one we are prepared for even when we know it is "coming". I hope we can all find some comfort in knowing that she is no longer in any pain. She is at peace.
Thank you for letting us know.
Love and big hugs to everyone on here.
Melissa