So how is everyone doing!!

Just wanted to see how everyone is doing? Seems like it has been quite on here for some time. A little update...still trying to make the marriage work but it is not seeming to work but I made a promise to see how things go until May 2..then I will make the decision. What do you do when your not in love anymore... Hugs,

You have to be true to yourself. The choices you make may hurt your husband now but it may be better than dragging it for ever. The only one who knows that is you. Take care tara

Things are busy busy busy here. I'm working on the house trying to get things ready to put it on the market. It seems things keep happening to keep me from doing all I need to do though. UGH!! I do get something done each day towards it though. I'm so sorry I haven't done the QOTD this week. Life has gotten in the way lately. I'll try to do better. Sorry to hear things aren't working out yet. But, who knows what will happen between now and May 2. At least this way you and he will always know you gave it a shot and if it doesn't work you won't have any doubts about whether or not you did the right thing. Take care!! Susan

HEY ANGELA, I AGREE W/ YOU, IT HAS BEEN VERY QUIET HERE LATELY, I WONDER WHY? I KNOW FOR ME, I SOMETIMES GET ON HERE LATER THAN EVERYONE ELSE DUE TO MY WORK SCHEDULE (7a - 7p) OR BECAUSE I'M SO TIRED WHEN I DO GET HOME I DON'T GET ON FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS. AS FOR HOW I'M DOING? WONDERFUL, FEEL GREAT, HAVE A LOT OF ENERGY BUT NOT MOTIVATED TO GET OUT AND WALK, LAZY, LAZY, LAZY. I'M PROUD OF YOU STICKING TO YOUR CONVICTION TO GIVE YOUR MARRIAGE A TRY. IT'S SO HARD WHEN YOUR HEART ISN'T IN IT, ESPECIALLY AFTER WHAT YOUR HUSBAND SAID TO YOU RE: HIS REASON FOR MARRIAGE. DON'T BEAT YOUR SELF UP OVER THIS IF NOTHING COMES OF YOUR EFFORT. DON'T FEEL AS IF YOU'VE FAILED, YOU PUT YOUR BEST EFFORT INTO MAKING IT WORK. SOMETHINGS ARE JUST NOT MENT TO BE. IF THIS IS THE CASE, JUST KNOW YOU GAVE IT YOUR ALL, LEARN FROM THIS, BE PROUD OF YOURSELF AND YOUR EFFORTS AND ALL YOU'VE ACCOMPLISHED. HAVING THIS SURGERY, GETTING FIT AND BEING SECURE IN THE PERSON YOU ARE AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE IN THE FUTURE. JUST KNOW THAT WE ARE ALL PROUD OF YOU AND ARE HERE FOR YOU W/ LOVE, SUPPORT AND PRAYERS. DONNA, SFY

You guys are great!! Thank you for all the supportive words!!! Thank you all for everything... Hugs,

So glad to see you are still hanging in there....so am I. You know how my life is from when we talked on Yahoo. That was great...hope we can chat again soon!!!! Hang in there and follow your heart....nobody knows it better than you. I know it is really rough being in a relationship with no love...if you aren't feeling it know I doubt it if you ever will. That is my way of think because I feel the same way as you do. Take care and hope to see ya on Yahoo. Lisa S.

Hi, Angela. It has been quiet on the board lately. We need to get things moving again. I'm doing well. I've been working a good bit and my new laptop for work has been freezing up when I have my work applications opened and then try to surf the net, so I have been trying to keep my web surfin down to a minimum. That's hard for me. I work a 10 hour shift at night and have a lot of downtime in between calls and usually surf the net in between calls. Haven't been able to do that the past two weeks. Glad to hear that you gave your marriage one last shot. Atleast you can say you tried. I can't imagine how hard it is to try to work things out after some of the things that your husband said to you. I'm sorry that you are going through this. Hope you can find some peace with your decision after May 2nd. I guess if you are not in love anymore, then it is time to move on. You are young and don't need to waste your life in a loveless marriage. Nobody needs to do that. Hugs to you Tabby