Checking in...

Checking in to see how everyone is doing. What is the latest on Deanna? I have tried to catch up with everyone but kinda of hard to do. As far as things around here goes, I am home and am given this marriage a month, I wanted to make sure that I tried it before saying it won't work. He says he has changed and things will be different, only time will tell. Right now he is trying to hard and I have not gotten past the hurt and don't know if I can. Plus life is too short!! Right now everything he does is just not him or at least not the him I have known for 4 years. My son is happy to be home..me, I am just confused. Want to make sure that I make the right decisions for me. Like I said only time will tell. How is everyone's weight loss going? I weighed this morning and lost 88 lbs total so 2 lbs since Friday. Still not eating much trying but you know, nerves. Hard to believe only 12 pounds from 100 lbs loss. It will take forever to loose those 12 lbs. and 43 lbs from goal weight...I will make it!! Glad to be back!! Hugs,

Hi Angela! Glad to hear from you!! Been missing you the past few days! Big hugs to you right now.... Congrats on the loss!! 12 pounds from 100 down is awesome!!! You are going to be at goal soon!! Susan

Hi Angela, Just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you and keeping you in my prayers....Congrats on the weight loss!!! Right now I am 42 pounds from my goal weight.... Hugs, Holly

Hi, Angela. Glad to "See" you. Congrats on the weight loss. You are so close to the century mark. Keep up the great work. Good luck with your marriage and figuring out what is best for you and your family. It has to be hard to have had your husband say the things that he has said and to have your feeling crushed. Marriage is hard. You have to work at it. It is so much easier to leave than to work it out. Try to find those things in your husband that made you fall in love with him to start with. Maybe do a date night and get all dressed up and go somewhere together. Something you BOTH enjoy. Dinner and a movie or something. Not out to the bar. Best wishes to you, Tabby

HI ANGELA, I'M SO GLAD TO SEE YOU BACK AMONG YOUR FRIENDS AND SUPPORTERS HERE AT THE OCT. BOARD. I'M GLAD YOU'RE GIVING YOUR MARIAGE A SECOND CHANCE. YOU'VE INVESTED SO MUCH TIME. EFFORT AND EMOTION INTO IT IN THE PAST FOUR YEARS. I UNDERSTAND HOW UPSET YOU ARE W/ HIS DECEPTION ON HIS EMOTIONS. HOPEFULLY YOU CAN WORK THROUGH EVERYTHING AND COME TO THE BEST SOLUTION FOR YOU AND YOUR SON. CONGRATULATIONS ON THE WEIGHT LOSS. I'VE LOST A TOTAL OF 90# AS OF TODAY. COULDN'T BELIEVE IT. LOST 4# THIS WEEK AND 4# LAST WEEK. MUST BE THE 2.1 MILE WALK I'VE BEEN TAKING. THAT'S THE ONLY THING I CAN THINK OF. ONLY 43# TILL YOU MEET GOAL ? HOW WONDERFUL, I'M SO JEALOUS, I STILL HAVE 73#'s TO GO TO MAKE MY PERSONAL GOAL, IF I EVER DO. GLAD YOU'RE BACK AMONG US. DONNA, SFY