What a Shocker...

Not...my husband came to where I am staying and had something he wanted to tell me, he said he had to be honest. Well..this is what he said :I married you because I did love you but not in love with you and I have never been attracted to you until now. I asked him why he married me? He said he loved the person and he figured he could live without the intimacy and sex because he wasn't that attracted to me: So now I am just a little livid but understand more!!! He is totally attracted to me now and that has happened in the last two weeks. I am so glad he could make that decision for both of us. He made me feel like crude for 4 years, unattractive, just everything....What the hell!!! BTW: how is Deeanne? hugs,

Hi Angela!! I'm not sure to say about what your hubby told you. How do you feel about it? You said now you understand what's been going on FINALLY after 4 years. But, what about now? Are you guys going to be able to move on from here? Sounds like he's interested now and ready for more intimacy.....what do you think? As for Deanne....I haven't called them since my last update. She has been in ICU and I'm not sure if she's out yet. Plus, I figured right now she's not feeling very well considering how much she had to have been opened up - not to mention the news they gave her. I'm planning to call her tomorrow though and see if she's out of ICU and ready for a chat. Will let you all know how she's doing when I speak with her. Susan

Angela, I think it is great that your husband came and talked openly with you. I think you still need to take it slowly. There seems to be so many issues going on that you both need to work on. Hugs, A.

Hi Angela, This may not be pc and you may hate me for saying it...but I'd spit in his face and send him packing. You can do SO MUCH better than that. Lisa

Hey Angela...Thats cool that he has come to speak to you in person...But I would suggest going to counceling before making any move getting back together. There are problems there that need to be settled and or worked on. Think long and hard before you move back. Hugs Judy