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Thank you all so much for your support. I knew that there were others facing this issue. I just came back from my daughter's awards assembly. My husband and mother attended as well. My mom just sat there with a blank stare as all of the teachers commended Tim and I on our loses. My daughter's teacher said, "You have lost an entire person between the two of you!" My mom just looked the other way. I know deep down that she is proud and happy for us but we are a reminder of her weight failure. I'm hoping she comes around.

I'm hoping she comes around. ....My thoughts exactly. She is probably just feeling like a failure herself and jealous that she has not been able to do it too. Shes your mom and she loves you and you already stated that you KNOW she is proud and supportive of you. She just needs some time to get over her personal issues and see your success for what it is. Untill then you have to rely on yourself to be your biggest supporter...and your hubby is right there with you which is a plus. *hugs* and congrats on the 90 lbs!!