I have a 10/27 date!

I am excited an scared about what is coming up. I am excited to change my lifestyle.. and to be able to be more active and get rid of my health problems. Some of my friends and relatives sort of see it as a cop out... that I should be able to just use some self discipline and no surgery. I am a realist... I have self discipline but I seem unable to keep off the weight long term. I don't like the health effects which are accumulating now. I think this is the best choice for me... I am concerned about nutrition after but I will figure it out. With help from you all and others right? Debby in Duluth

Debby, Congrats on the date! I will be thinking of you! I totally understand how you feel. There comes a time when enough is enough. I came to that decision in May when I reached my highest weight ever and had already tried everything to lose weight. When I was 20 the extra weight didn't bother me except emotionally. Now that I am 42, it is a whole new ballgame with lots of strikes againest me. Having the surgery was the best gift I ever gave myself and I look forward to the future now with a clean slate. I too am concerned about nutrition and stuff, but like you, I will figure it out. I am here if you need anything. We can certainly help each other. Best wishes and keep in touch! Hugs, Sherry

Thank you so very much for the encouraging words! Debby