Need help and support immediatly.

Can I ask a favor of all of you woman who have had this surgery? My girlfriend is presently in the hospital ICU after complications from this surgery and is being evaluated again and may have to go back into surgery for the third time. She is very depressed and is loosing hope and saying she wishes that she didn't do this. I don't know what to do, other than to ask you all to email me at [email protected] and I will print out your supportive letters to give to Tammy. We are located in PA and I know that this would mean the world to her. Her support person is away for 2 days and Tammy's family doesn't know how to help her. I have her on a prayer chain and I know that that is a great comfort to her. Please if you wouldn't mind doing this, I would be eternaly greatful to you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Mary (please put in the subject line, Tammy)

Mary, I emailed you. Let me know when you get it. Thanks, Janet

i sent an email with well wishes and prayers. i am pre-op, so i don't have any other words of wisdom in that regard. just prayers. fondly, patricia