Yeah I was just curious. I gained 4 lbs this week. It seems to do that often. I lose a good amonut and then it comes back and comes off again after my period. It's just frustrating! Erin

Man, I hope not! I am 5'8 and was 330 the day of surgery and today I'm weighing in at 177..........so my goal is 160--- I intend to get there...it just will take a little longer than I would like, since we don't have as much to loose anymore....I know how you feel though...I so desperately want to get to goal so that I can not focus so much on the numbers but so that I can start maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Don't worry.......WE WILL MAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!! Hugs Vickie 330/177/160

hey Erin i'm only 5'5" and I feel like i'm done at 148 I just go back and forth between 148 and 150 but you know what in a single diget size clothes so i'm perfectly fine with it but I would like to lose 10 more myself but like I said i'm happy where i'm at. I think our bodies know where to stop. Marcey 255/148/150

Ha! That's a great story, you gave me a good laugh. Fitting into medium anything - speedos or otherwise - that is truly something to celebrate! Go Octoberites!! Sheryl

Shannon, is there no post WLS surgery support group in your area? If not, perhaps working toward starting a group will help bring you out of your funk. Shoot, just getting together with one or two WLS types, men or women will at the very least help you realize that others share your journey. You could start off by merely going to a coffee shop or a local park and take turns bringing a suitable beverage. This website is very helpful, however, the monthly (men only) meetings that I attend give me a chance to shake hands with fellow travelers that give me a little more strength to continue... Bud