cosmetic or health?

now that i have had the surgery and am over with it, i have to admit a small secret burning inside.... i had weightloss surgery for more of a cosmetic reasoning. i was concerned about my health reasons also, but there was always something burning inside that made me want it SOO bad to be skinny and accepted? does this make me a bad person because i know that there are so many individuals out there who would die to be in my position because of health reasons.....anyone else do it for cosmetic? finda nessy

No, your not a bad person for wanting to look and feel better... part of my reason was cosmetic. I'm happy for the first time in 22 yrs!!! There is nothing I can't do now..(that's the mental health getting better)... My back feels soooo much better!!!! (that's the physical health)... Be happy, enjoy... Jo