re: Anyone knowing how I can get my own website for updating
you have one here at OH under your profile if you care to use it! I'm not computer savvy either and it took a couple of people prompting me where to click and all that but I found it and I update mine here. Believe me, if I can do it anyone can. And they also prettied up my site (at my request) with horses since we love and raise horses. I went to your profile and note that you are not utilizing it for your updates etc...
Another reason to do it is to help those coming after us and thinking of surgery. I know I read profiles like crazy when I was in the decision making mode about surgery. so many of the profiles here have inspired me and kept me from "bogging down" when I was in the process of getting all the pre-op stuff done and what seemed like endless waiting at one point.
Good luck!