does any one else..hide....
why do i wanna hide from hubby when he sees me in my panties or with my top off..........lord when i was 242lbs i was show my fat but all over this house ,but the more i lose,the worst i get depressed about my body. My breast have gone away like 42d.....now 36b lol...........why can't i be happy lol........................thanx had to vent.............vickie r.
Vickie,
I have the opposite problem.....(promise that what I am about to write is not kinky
) I will be in my bra and underpants and make my hubby look and then I am like"well, do I look better?" and he says "yes you look good." I am starting to get upset and I say "Jim, when I weighed 300 pounds you told me I looked good....are you really telling me that I am still good?" Then he says "No, I mean you look really fantastic'' Then I go "what parts are better?"
This can go on for a really lonnnngggg time.
This poor man still loves me inspite of it.
I think that we all just have so much going on with our new bodies that we just cant expect to adjust to the changes instantly. My boobs are gone too. I have a hang belly like nobodys business. And I have weird skin between my thighs. But damnit I am happier and you should be too. I just hope those around us survive the transition period.
Good luck and you look FANTASTIC!
Missy
) I will be in my bra and underpants and make my hubby look and then I am like"well, do I look better?" and he says "yes you look good." I am starting to get upset and I say "Jim, when I weighed 300 pounds you told me I looked good....are you really telling me that I am still good?" Then he says "No, I mean you look really fantastic'' Then I go "what parts are better?"
This can go on for a really lonnnngggg time.
This poor man still loves me inspite of it.
I think that we all just have so much going on with our new bodies that we just cant expect to adjust to the changes instantly. My boobs are gone too. I have a hang belly like nobodys business. And I have weird skin between my thighs. But damnit I am happier and you should be too. I just hope those around us survive the transition period.
Good luck and you look FANTASTIC!
Missy 
Actually, I hid from my hubby while I was fat. I undressed in the dark and never let him see me. Now, every time he walks into the room, I'm in some state of undress and I feel sexy
You look so good, Vickie. I don't know why you'd be ashamed or depressed about your body. If you're depressed, you should probably talk to your doctor about it. Maybe you are actually depressed and need to do something about it?
Here's a hug and some love 
Cheryl
Cheryl 
Vickie,
I don't hide, but I don't show off much either. The good thing is my Hubby had the same surgery 2 months after me. So we are going through the same things. But the flabbier I get, the more upset I get about it. Here I am getting skinnier than I can ever remember, and I want to look sexy, but I'm getting all these wrinkles. I have lost some in my boobs too, as I can now fold them in half. I guess I will just have to start saving up for the plastics. Till then those support panties, and support hose to start holding in the sags. No sleeveless shirts or bathing suits this summer either.
Try to take it easy on your hubby, he must love you alot. Take care.
Mary L
I don't really hid I am just so excited that a towel now goes around me. But I have started to wear the panty breifs, you know with control, and they make me feel sooo much better. I am 46 and this is the first time I have ever owned a sexy bra and matching panties, with control. I love it. But I also know the depression at the lose skin. I have gone from a 48DD to a 40D and the skin is unreal. I hate my arms more than anything. My eight year old daughter told me she would save her money so I could have surgery. She then ask how much it cost and I told her. Her twin sister said she would save her money and just buy me long sleeve shirts. I thought that was sooo funny.
Good luck
Jane
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