I'm so discouraged

Thanks DJ. We just have to keep reminding ourselves that it's all worth it in the end.

I'm so glad to hear someone else is feeling like myself. I'm in the same boat as you but I've lost 108 pounds (and I'm forever grateful that I've lost those pounds-I love the way I look in my clothes). I thought I would have lost more by now. I'm a slow looser and I've made some eating mistakes and I know that doesn't help. I'm also switching from water aerobics to more walking and kickboxing (and even a little jogging). I want to loose another 80lbs so I know I have to refocus and do what I need to do. We can do this but we have to continue to support each other. I was feeling like a failure but I know my body works at a different pace than others. This too shall pass and thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone! Take care and keep in touch! Keke

Thanks Keke! We have to support & keep each other encouraged. We will get there eventually even if some us take the scenic route. Sonya

Hi Sonya, I'm so in the same boat. I cruise this site looking for support every day! I feel like I eat too much, yet according to fitday.com, I'm doing well (less than 1000 calories), and I log every bite I put in my mouth, including 1 kernel of popcorn. My plateau is now 12 weeks long, and I exercise 4-5 times a week. I hurt from so much exercise! I don't feel so alone now that I've read these posts. My "surgiversary" is Nov. 7, so I think the 'deadline' thing is what's stressing me out this week. I'm so thrilled with what I've lost, but hope this is not the end. DianeC.

Hi Diane, I think you're right about giving ourselves deadlines. What I have to remember is that I didn't gain the weight overnight and I won't lose it all overnight. The support I receive from everyone on the site has helped me to take the pressure off myself. Thanks, Sonya