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Topic: clothes
Hi I was wondering if anyone has size 18 clothes to get rid of-I have been trying like crazy to find some and hate paying for new clothes only to be out of them in a few weeks-I will pay for them ...no problem-I am looking to buy a whole collection ----I have lost 110 pounds-since my surgery date of October 12th...please email me..Thanks
Topic: RE: Taking surgery for granted
Hi there
let me say you are not alone.
I too forget my vitamins. I may have taken 5 since surgery. I dont know why i just keep forgetting. I also didnt take the pill either and have three children yup you guessed it all on the pill. I dont drink 60 oz of water. I drink when im thirsty. I dont get all my protein in. I do try and eat the meat protein first when i eat then the rest. I also have snacks that arent veggies and prolly shouldnt have but i am human. I too have lost 100 lbs nothing to sneeze at. Sooo maybe im not the model patient. BUT LET ME SAY THIS LOUD AND CLEAR.
I no longer ge****ery mouth going past macdonalds. I no longer have three servings of dinner. I no longer replace a meal with a chocolate bar chips and a chocolate milk. I no longer look in the mirror and hate myself. I no longer obsess about what i eat. I eat when im hungry i drink when im thirsty and for the most past I feel great. SURE i could do the fitday thing everyday sure i could be counting my protein and carbs and what not BUT i had this surgery to be normal and low and behold food is now something i eat cause i have to not because its there.
I know alot wont agree but i feel that i have the bull by the horns and with the exception of the vitamin thing IM doing pretty darn well. Im eating healthier maybe not the healthiest but 100% better than before. Im liking my changing body even though parts are wrinkly but hey thats alright. My hubby is paying more attention to me with the lil cups and feels(guess he approves too) soo its all good.
Dont beat yourself up relax your doing awesome if your not the type to obsess about things dont consider that a failure consider it just being you and think of the things that you no longer do that you used to do that was soo bad for you and i bet youll feel like i do....IM NOT DOING THAT BAD AT ALL.
kindest regards
deborah gale
nova scotia canada
Topic: RE: Taking surgery for granted
Kristen, I personally have not been perfect when it comes to food. I have however not missed a day of my vitamins. I view these as our lifeline. I just want to let you know that I feel your pain. All can advise is to take it one moment at a time. Set new mini-goals and re-focus. Just do a do-over. It is not a race. Everyday is a learning experience. Don't be ashamed and remember no one is perfect, as far as asking for help that is what we are here for!!!
Topic: RE: I need your help!!!
Hello Karla, there are days I can eat a whole Mexican pizza. Or an entire Gordita. The last time I ate a mexican pizza I ate 3/4 of it. It just depends on the day. I definetly try to limit my taco bell outings to once every 2 weeks or even longer because I know the food is not great. I have actually sworn off the mexican pizza's because when I looked up the calories it was too much. The gorditas are the healthiest on their menu. I personally think you are okay. I was told that the goal is to actually eat a normal portion of food and I really don't think 2 taco's is more than a normal portion. I am sure before surgerey I would of had at least 5. I too though must admit that at times I obsess over how much I can eat now. 4 tbls. of food that sure sounds like very little. My Nut. and surgeon have told me to eat at each meal until I feel that lil' sensation of fullness. But there are definetly days I can barely eat so I know my pouch is still doing it's thing!!! Good luck and maybe it will make you feel better if you like get the 2 tacos and weigh them. Just a suggestions. Good Luck.
Topic: RE: What did you eat yesterday?
B- 1/4 cup chicken salad
S- about 6 doritos and the inside of a meat pastry
L- 1/4 of a hamburger w/ cheese no bun and 1/4 c babked beans and 1 tsp. of a greek pasta salad, 3 slices pickles.
D- 1/4c mac n cheese w/ extra slice of chees about 1/4 c tuna w/ mayo and 1 garlic cracker.
S- 1 banana w/ 1/4 c of cool whip light and about 1/4 c of bitter sweet chocolate chips.
Water- about 48 oz.
Walked for 1 hour at the beach on the sand (exhausting!)
Topic: What did you eat yesterday?
Hoorible...did not eat nearly enough.
B - 1/2 c low sugar Fruit Loops with 1/2 c skim milk
L - one bite of english muffin & decided I wasn't hungry enough to bother
D - 2 oz lean ground beef patty, 1/4 grilled zucchin, 1/2 small corn on the cob
S - 5 ****tail meatballs, 1/2 c skim milk
Totals: 423 calories (YIKES)
20 fat, 28 carbs, 33 protein. Only drank about 40 oz water.Terrible.
Topic: Taking surgery for granted
This is my first visit to this board. This post has been a long time in coming, but I have been too ashamed to actually post it. I think that by writing it all down I have to recognize that I have a problem.
I had lap RNY on 10-25-04, two days after my beloved father passed away. I lost my job of 13 years two months ago today - I've been dealing with a LOT. And although I have lost 89 pounds to date, I am stalling more and more.
I do not take my supplements. I might get in half my water, counting my herbal tea (5-6 cups a day). I'm not anywhere near getting in my protein. I haven't exercised since January. I am eating Stouffer's casseroles (mostly Escalloped Chicken and Noodles and Tuna Casserole), which are pretty good with protein but lousy with carbs. Ritz Bitz with Peanut Butter are a favorite snack. I am not sleeping well, and need a nap every day to function. My DH has given me everything that I need to do this right - including unwavering support and love. *I am letting him down and it kills me.*
I just re-read my profile, which details the h*ll that I went through to have this surgery. Why am I doing this to myself? I don't want to regain, I don't want to fail. I like that my health problems are resolving (although my plantar faciitis is getting worse with every pound lost!) I started a fitday.com account, but quit after three days (although I did stop eating shortbread cookies when I saw the protein/carbs/fat graph).
What am I doing to myself physically by not taking the supplements, protein and water?
I know logically that I just need to snap out of it and restart. Has anyone else done this before? And how eactly did you do it? I am so ashamed that I am doing this to myself and have to ask for help.
Thank you in advance.
Kristen
Topic: New Support Group in Phoenix
I am starting a new support group in Phoenix, AZ serving the metro Phoenix area in June. Location is still be acquired, but I should have that finalized within the next week. This is an Obesity Help chapter. Each meeting you will learn something new about pre-op or post-op process, tips and tricks, recipes, exercises, dealing with unsupportive people, living with WLS and so much more!!
If you live in the Phoenix Metro area or ever visit this area, you are welcome to attend!!
Go to website below for more information or to join the online support group!!
(http)://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/OHphoenix/
Hugs,
Trisha
-56 lbs
Topic: RE: I need your help!!!
Around 6 month post op the pouch relaxes and can handle more. I know that is scary for some ppl because all of a sudden they can eat a lot more. Theres no way I could eat 2 tacos, maybe the filling without the shell, but not 2 tacos. Thats me though, and everyone progresses differently.
I think if you did something wrong, you would be able to eat way more than that. Was that all you ate that day? If that was everything for the day, its not that much. I find the slower I eat, the more I eat. If I nibble all day I eat way more than if I eat planned meals.
In the end, if you are still worried, have your surgeon do an upper GI to rule out a staple line disruption.
GOod luck to you!
Topic: RE: What did you eat yesterday?
Friday was ok, though I really got to cut back the carbs. Because I was sick the first 4 months, a lot of what I could actually tolerate were carbs. Weird.
So,
protein shake
4 crackers with peanutbutter
1 serv soy crispy minis BBQ
4 cans Iced Tea (diet)
Cream of potato soup with cheddar (made with fat free milk)
Sugar free choc chip cookie, soaked in milk
Sugar free hot chocolate
more soup (I eat about 1/2c at a time)
NO WATER- just one of those days
Some days are just weird like this. Mostly better days, but sometimes, I just munch and dont bother to pay attention.