Have date..countdown started :)
I have my date.. Oct 27th - 9am.. VERY excited - .. I do have 1 question for all those out there that have had the operation ..
My girlfriend (who I love very much) is very worried that the surgery will cause my feelings for her to change (which I have tried to tell her it won't ) ... and there are no real support groups for those that are the spouses/partners of a bari to help them .. Any suggestions ??
Thanks!
I have the same date! Cool! My husband is feeling the same way - I am only 25, but we have been together since I was 15. So, he is really worried that when I change, my feelings will also. All I know to do is reassure him, but to him they are only words. I'm just going to have to prove it to him I guess. Best of Luck! 16 days and counting....