NERVES ARE KICKING!!!!

HELLO EVERYONE, AS U SEEN MY DATE FOR SUGERY IS VERY SOON. THANX FOR THE E-MAILS. AND THE TIME TO SEND ME YOUR THOUGHTS AND APPENTIONS. I AM GETTING CLOSER TO THE DAY AND I AM SO AFRAID SOMETHING IS GOINNG TO KEEP ME FROM HAVING THE SURGERY. I AM AFFRAID THE WIEGHT WILL NOT COME OFF. AND I DON'T KNOW IF THIS IS ALL NERVES OR JUST A LITTLE SCARD. OKAY ALOT SCARED. I WILL ADMITT I AM CAN SOME ONE TELL ME HOW TO COPE WITH THESE FEARS? PLEASE.

All I can say is do deep breathing exercises, pray and know in your heart that you are making the right decission for you! That you will feel great and have a bright future ahead of you! Good luck and God bless!

I just try to keep focused on what my life is going to be like 6 months down the road. I can't wait to have more energy, feel better, look better, and regain control over my life. I see this surgery as the starting line, and I don't think as much about the actual surgery as I do about what it will do for me. Hope this helps. ~Cathy

Cathy, we have the same surgery date, not at all nervous about the surgery, with the exception of worry over getting the flu, cold and won't be able to have my surgery

I HOPE TO GIVE U THE MOST LUCK IN STAYING HEALTHY. AQLONG WITH THE THANX WITH YOUR SUPPORT. THANX SO MUCH {{HUGS}}

No't be nervous, it really is a great feeling when you are done, I had mine on Sept 29 its GREAT!!!!

Hi Tamara. My surgery is scheduled for 10/19 and I am so nervous, scared, excited - you get the picture. Like the others have said, I just think about how much better I will feeling in 6 mo. and how I will feel in a year! I want and need this surgery, not only for myself but for my family as well. I want to be around to raise my 7 yr old daughter. I want to be able to run and play with her instead of watching from the sidelines. That is not living - not to me anyway. It is natural to be scared - I'd be worried if I weren't, but we will get through this and be happier for it. I wish you the best of luck. Take care. Rachella

Hi Tamara. My surgery is scheduled for 10/19 and I am so nervous, scared, excited - you get the picture. Like the others have said, I just think about how much better I will feeling in 6 mo. and how I will feel in a year! I want and need this surgery, not only for myself but for my family as well. I want to be around to raise my 7 yr old daughter. I want to be able to run and play with her instead of watching from the sidelines. That is not living - not to me anyway. It is natural to be scared - I'd be worried if I weren't, but we will get through this and be happier for it. I wish you the best of luck. Take care. Rachella

Ok girl, I have the same surgery date. Its absolutely normal to feel that way. Just remember God didn't bring you this far to leave you! I worried about being the only one this doesn't work for, but that really is not going to happen, we WILL lose you'll see!! Then I want pictures! Try and relax, take your vitamins, and wash your hands alot to kill any germs. Its gonna be OK! Blessigs~ Robin R

Put it in Gods hands and relax. You did the homework. You know why you are doing this. It WILL be ok!