Recent Posts
Topic: RE: almost 1 year
Hi Amy... congratulations on your success!! I agree that exercise is the key.. and an active lifestyle. I do good at exercise on the week-ends but during the week, it's hard for me. Anyway... I hope that you can get off your standstill... I'm on one too.. ugh! Keep up the good work! Pam
Topic: RE: Well, it's been a year an...
Congratulations, Patty!! You have done great! You desereve the PS, I say! You go girl... !!! Love, Pam
Topic: RE: I year post -op and at goal!!!
Hi Cheryl,
Congratulations! You are looking good & by the sound of your post feeling good too. I'm happy for you.
Judy
Topic: RE: Well, it's been a year an...
Wow Patty,
Don't feel guilty - you are worth every penny of it! Besides 54 is not old! I'll be praying for you. I know everything will go well at surgery. Then watch out you'll be one hot mama... ha ha.
Take care - Judy
Topic: RE: 1 year post op
Hi CJ,
You ought to be excited! You've done a wonderful job. Happy birthday - Judy
Topic: RE: almost 1 year
Hi Amy,
I'm in the same boat. I'll be 1-yr out on 10/23 -111 lbs. feeling great but still about 15-20 to go. I'm still losing but it is slow now. I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do ACCEPT need more exercise. So in my case I know what I've got to do - get off my (skinny) butt now & start more weight training. I feel this will help me. Don't know how much you exercise but maybe that could be your situation too?
Judy
Topic: RE: Body Image
I reached my one year anniversary on October 14 and until just a few weeks ago, I had the same issues with seeing the old "fat" person in the mirror. It has gotten mush better now, though. I believe the mind just needs time to catch up with the body! Most of us were heavy for so long and our minds were so used to that. It will take a while for everything to adjust to our new smaller selves. I have been counseling with my assistant pastor and he reminded me that God sees us as we truly are and we should see ourselves that way too. We know in our minds that we are thinner, so allow your eyes to see the new beautiful self. It will happen - one day you'll be walking in the mall and see a reflection of a beautiful person in a window then you'll realize that it is YOU! The new person! Tell yourself every day that you are beautiful, you are smaller and thinner and you are perfect. Say it until you believe it, then say it because it is true!
Congratulations on the absolutely fantastic weight loss!!! You've done so well!!!
Dorita
Topic: RE: Question of the Evening...
I think that being able to sit in a seat at a stadium is the greatest. Well, having people notice me again is wonderful too. Seemed that when I was almost 300 pounds I was invisible to others. It's nice to be able to go to the "normal" size clothing in stores now and now have to buy those 24's and 26's anymore. OH! The funniest thing to me is that my feet are almost a whole size smaller and I need narrow sizes now. Who would've thought that feet get smaller with weight loss? I never really thought about that before.
(As far as intimacy with my hubby, that still hasn't returned, but I did have to have a hysterectom yin August 2004 and the hormones probably have a lot to do with this.)
Dorita
Topic: RE: 1 year post op
Fantastic!!! You've done so very well. I know exactly what you mean about the self esteem and feeling better and I too agree that it's the best thing I ever did also! I reached one year on 10/14 and the difference is staggering. I started at 297 pounds and now weigh 167. Congratulations to all of us!!!!! Best wishes and let me know when you reach goal. We'll do the happy dance!
Topic: RE: Well, it's been a year an...
Congratulations to all of us who have reached out one-year anniversaries. I have lost 127 pounds and have reached my goal which is 167 pounds. I don't think I'm going to have a tummy tuck or anything done - just don't know yet if I want another big scar. The tummy sags a tiny bit but at 47 years old, it doesn't matter. My husband loves me and I feel good so the plastic surgeries are something I might think about in the future. As far as breast surgery - no - I am just so happy to be a C+ cup instead of a FF that it is just wonderful. I wear a size 10-12 now and one year ago I wouldn't have even dreamed that would ever be possible. How is everyone's energy levels? I've noticed such a difference! I actually went roller skating and bowling last evening with my nephew and my sister! I had so much fun - couldn't have done that before WLS! This was the best decision I have ever made and yes, I would do it all over again. Best wishes to all and let us know how the plastic surgeries go. (who knows, I may have that tummy tuck later anyway! LOL)