very nervousssss

im having surgery in 1 month and im realy scared even mayby not to go through with it..pls. help

Jessica- As far as you not going...you are the only one who can decide that, although you wouldn't have done all of the research you have if you didn't feel that it was necessary. I think that, for me anyway, I knew that I would have to "sell" the idea of surgery in Mexico to my loved ones so I did a lot of research. For myself, I have compiled a list of all the reasons I why I am going and also look at the before and after pictures on a regular basis. The very reasons on my list are enough to keep my confidence in my decision to have WLS. Good Luck Jessica on your surgery. I will be down to see Dr. Aguirre right after you on Oct. 2 (Pre-op) for surgery on the 3rd of Oct. If you want to talk, feel free to email me for my number. -Vicki

I said a prayer for you. I asked that God will anoint anyone *****ads this (and all on this site) from the top of their head to the soles of their feet, and that he would open up the gates of heaven and pour out a blessing upon you that there shall not be room enough to contain it. I don't know your religion. But I will tell you that things happen for reasons we don't always understand. The darkest part of night is just before day. This situation will make you stronger. And you will be able to give someone advice in the future because you have gone through it. Just remember to thank God it is what is it. Don't compare yourself to examples of how much better things could be (anything). Rather yet compare yourself to examples of how much WORSE things could be. THAT WILL HELP YOU TO PRAISE GOD IN THE TIME OF CIR****TANCE! He made "OLD DRY BRITTLE BONES LIVE AGAIN"! Baby he can turn your situation, AND MY SITUATION around and work it out for the good of us. What looked like it was the worse thing that ever happened to you, can turn around to be the best thing that ever happened to you. The things that people do to harm you, can be turned around to make them bless you. Just keep your head up. There is more than what meets the eye! Sometimes we want things and can't understand why we don't get them, or why we dont get them when we want them. But God can see in the future for us. I pray that you let him light your footsteps and you follow him. Let him be your guide. Let him order your steps of righteousness. Amen! Anntronett Radcliff, KY Open RNY Oct. 13, 2003 Oh, I'm also going to pray that the Lord speaks calmness in your spirit and gives you peace. Turn your excitment into something positive. You've made the right decision. Just let go and let God!