Oh no he didn't!

So I've been starving on liquids for a week now.  Surgery isn't until next Wednesday.  My husband calls me at work and asks "So you wanna go get some dinner?"



I asked him if he's TRYING to be a dick.  He's so self-centered.  If it isn't all about him, he doesn't THINK.  I expect it from my teens, but not my husband.

He's going to have to get a new food buddy.  It's the only thing that we ever did together...eat. 

So sorry he was being like that, I can totally relate. I'm only 4 days in on my liquid diet and HUNGRY. My husband thinks it's okay to ? me on anything I put in my mouth. I was having tea and he's like 'are you allowed that'? Maybe it was just his tone, but of course I'm allowed it or I wouldn't be having it! It was the second time in like 15 minutes he was questioning me.  Grrr, I'm probably being oversensitive but I'm not just a little cranky w/no food!
He's since been very nice and supportive, (I'm sure the bithching out he got helped). Hope your man falls into line and is the support you need! Good luck on the 3rd!

Yeah, I know what you mean,
First night of my diet, the husband eats a whopper right next to me.
Second day of my diet (yesterday), he brings home fried chicken
I took the plate out of his hands and put it in the kitchen and he said " I was eating that"
I said "Eat it in the kitchen, eating fried chicken in front of your starving wife is just RUDE"
Sometimes they just don't think.

I am 3 days into mine I cooked for my family it was not as hard as I thought it would be.  We traveled the first day and I carried my protein drink into the restaurant while my granddaughter and husband ate the alternative would have been tosit in the car and feel sorry for myself and I was not going to do that.

Judy

Yeah, I know what you mean. Its really tough. I've been on liquids for 10 days now. I still have to cook every day for the whole family. It makes it really, really hard. I think my husband should big up the ball a took over some with the cooking, but he just won't.
Oh well, only a few more days left. My surgery is Tuesday, 9/2.

Take care and be strong!

Thanks everyone.  I know PART of it is my crankiness from starvation, but not all of it.  I can't tolerate the protein shakes so I am really starving.  Sorry, broth and tea just don't do it.  Grr.