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Topic: RE: September 19th is surgery day!!!
Esther,
Well its 3:00 am here in Oklahoma and I can't sleep!!! You are so lucky to have so many people love you and want to be with you during this time. How long will they stay with you? My husband is the only one going with me to the hospital. I told my kids I would be fine it was no big deal. You are very welcome for the grocery list I hope it helps you. Go ahead and print it off and ask your doctor if those liquids are okay for you to consume after surgery. Just to be safe. Well I'm going to go shower and head out to the hospital . God Bless and I will talk to you soon.
Debi
Topic: RE: Frightened
15 months out, no complications all co-morbidities resolved (sleep apnea, GERD, High BP, etc.), off all medications, down -142 pounds (7 pounds below goal)
You are welcome to read my story http://theworldaccordingtoeggface.blogspot.com/
Hope this helps,
~Michelle
Topic: RE: September 19th is surgery day!!!
Hi Debi,
WOW!! Its's midnight here in Florida and already its the 19th!! Yeow.... I hope you get to read this before you leave for the hospital (I'm not sure the time of your surgery).. if you do.. Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you today and my well wishes for a SUPER SPEEDY recovery.
I can't believe that this moment is really here.. it took so long in coming but now it just sort of pounced on us. I guess next time we communicate, it will be when we are recovering or during our first stages. I do hope to hear from you.
I have a huge support team here.. my brother and sister flew in from Chicago, my other brother from Palm Bay, my sister from Miami and tomorrow my other brother who lives in West Palm Beach will arrive at the hospital to meet up with us there.. plus
my three daughters and son and two brothers in law and my first ex-husband will also be there.. I already warned the doctor that he would have his hands full with my family but he said he looks forward to meeting them all.
I will keep it short today, because I know that you are probably reading this right before leaving for the hospital or maybe even recovering from surgery.
Thank you SO MUCH for the list of liquid foods list you gave me. I was not aware of how many things I can get to satisfy my palate while on the various stages. I REALLY do appreciate your help, Debi. Now i have a game plan.. I will have my daughers buy me most of the items you gave me on the list while I'mrecovering in the hospital so that when I get home I will plenty of food to stuff my self with.. (just kidding)
Please keep in touch.. you are so nice. I will call you my sister-in-surgery... how's that sound? Catchy? LOL
Take care of yourself, Debi. My prayers will be with you all day. God bless you and good bye for now.
Warm regards,
Esther
Topic: RE: Three Years and 230 lbs later
Teresa...what an awesome response, and so quickly. I wanted my surgery (lapband) done at SMDC in Duluth, Minnesota but as they have not accepted Medicare/Medicaid.I chose to go to Fridely, Minn. which is 129 miles away. They are a Center for Excellence and accept Medicare/Medicaid. I found an excellent surgeon, Dr. Fredrick Johnson who does both the lapband and RNY. I abandoned the Lapband as it is proving to be far too expensive (I would probably have to pay for all the fills) so I chose RNY and dicovered Dr. Johnson is willing to do the procedure. I need to be approved for my psych evaluation before the papers can be sent to Medicare for approval. The wait for the WLS has been nearly two years but I feel it is well worth it and I am optimistic that all will work out. Thank you so much for the wealth of information concerning preparation for the RNY and what to expect following the surgery. ...blessings, Barbara
Topic: RE: Three Years and 230 lbs later
As I have talked to people, dumping or what happens after you eat something too sweet, varies for everyone. For me it always, always, always involves very, very loose stools that are sudden and unexpected. I also get some nausea and stomach growls and things like that. it has caused me sweats and extreme tiredness as well. I look at dumping syndrome as a good thing. As soon as you can identify what did it to you, you don't want to eat that again. Ever. Period. I'm glad I still have the problem because it reminds me what not to eat. Like tonight. I will confess. I had been able to eat Starburst candies. Tonight, I ate too many and the sight was not pretty. It's a good thing I was home and close to the bathroom. (Sorry for being so graphic.) Just follow your eating plan and DON'T CHEAT! For me, one of the things I did pre-surgery was to cut out caffeine. I did that first about 3 months before surgery. Then, because I was a Diet Coke addict, I moved to caffeine free diet coke and then cut out soda all together and went to Propell for about a month prior to surgery. After surgery, I figured Propell would be Ok and would have been except it tasted too sweet to me. I preferred Crystal Light. Now, I just like plain old water. Sometimes I'll have the Crystal Light. I carry in the little individual packs. the other thing for me was the protein powders. I tried all kinds pre-surgery and found the ones I liked. After surgery, I couldn't stand ANY of them. I found that I could tolerate Liquid Protein from GNC. I put it in the Crystal Light and that worked great for me. It was horrible until I found that. Pre-surgery I didn't really like yogurt but after surgery it was one of my favorite friends. I found if I did not chew my food or ate something too bulky too soon, I got esophagus spasms. It feels like your throat is tightening up and won't let go. It's quite scary. Two things helped there. First, a doctor told me to take a prilosec every day. I've had other WLS patients tell me the same thing. i'd add it to your regimen after surgery. It really helped for some reason. Not sure quite why. Also, another doc gave me nitro tablets and told me if nothing else worked to take one of those. That is my last resort and it does work. Sometimes if I massage the back of my neck it also helps. I found that i can not tolerate dairy products very well. I can do the yogurt and cheese. But milk or sugar free ice cream does not work for me. sugar free popsicles were my best friends right after surgery. For some reason, anything berry or lemon flavored worked great for me. Also, I ate ground beef that was cooked and broken up before my 6 month period. I could tolerate that bette than chicken or turkey. Both of those are very dry and I would have to cut them up in really small pieces. I think you will do great if you just follow the surgeon's eating plan. I wouldn't buy a whole lot of stuff, just enought to get you through for a few weeks. On my list would be yogurt, cheese, cottage cheese, Soup (chicken noodle straining out the noodles is cheaper than chicken broth and you still have the chicken noodle that others will eat), clam chowder, pasta (when the diet says you can have it), liquid protein (I'd buy 4--32 ounce bottles), Crystal Light. I also like Cream of Wheat and the Quaker Oat Bran hot cereal with some cinnamon, splenda and a little milk. When you can eat more stuff, be sure to focus on some veggies and fruits. I know the doc says eat your protein first, but we also need the veggies and fruit that give us vitamins. All of those should come before the starches. I found water aerobics to be my exercise of choice. I also did water walking when I didn't get to the pool for the aerobics class or when I needed to go exercise earlier than the class. If you stick with it, you'll find the inches and pounds melting away. Now, skin. That's another matter. Skin won't melt. It has to be cut away and at a high price. But still even hanging skin is better than fat.
Best of luck. Let me know how you do. Who's your surgeon and where are you getting it done and when?
Teresa
Topic: RE: Frightened
Thank you so much for your response.
What you say, I suspect, could very well be true.
I would like to personally request and suggest that it's just as important for people to relay their "non-eventful" experiences as it is for those who have complications.
Because I'll tell you. I don't necessarily trust "official" statistics, and find it very disconcerting to find so many bad experiences here.
But, I agree. It's possible, when things are going smoothly, people are less motivated to share those experiences. They're too busy going on with their lives.
But, for those of us who are just investigating things, we need to have as an accurate representation as possible.
The uneventful stories are every bit as important as the eventful stories.
Topic: RE: Here we go!
Jeff,
Glad things are getting better. Tomorrow 7:00 is my day!! I am sooooo ready.
Will let you know how it went.
Debi
Topic: RE: September 19th is surgery day!!!
Ester,
It's here!!! Tomorrow is our day!!! Bless your heart you have really been through it, I thought I had been through alot but you got me beat. Just be sure to tell the anesthesiologist your problems with anesthesia. I'm so proud of you for losing 28 pounds. YOU GO GIRL.
My liquid diet has consisted of
Chicken broth
Beef Broth
Sugar Free Jello (really isn't bad at all)
Sugar Free Fudgesicles (really good)
Sugar Free Popsicles (also really good)
V-8 Juice
Sugar Free Carnation Instant breakfast with skim Milk
Apple juice
Grape Juice
Yoplait light smoothies (I like the strawberry banana)
For protein drink I get Isopure at the health food store. One bottle gives you all the protein you need for a day. I only drink 1/2 a bottle a day and get the rest in other drinks.
Sugar Free pudding (not bad)
Skim milk with sugar free chocolate syrup (I don't care for plain milk either)
Water at least 64 ounces a day
Thats what I have lived off of for 10 days now. My doctor requires 2 weeks of liquids after surgery also but I can have cream soups so I got
Tomato soup, pea soup, cream of mushroom, and cream of brocolli soup.
Hope this helps you.
God Bless and may he keep watch over you tomorrow. I will be in touch.
Debi
Topic: RE: Frightened
Lisa, there are a lot of us that haven't had any issues. We just tend to "lurk" around her more than most. I'd pop into other rooms to see what is going on. I did that. I would look at the month ahead of mine, then mine and now I check this one to offer any help to those coming after me. I think you will see that while some due have some complications, most are easy to fix. You can also click on peoples names and view their profiles. They tell you a lot sometimes too about what people go through.
So use this board to really get a good picture. Good luck on your choice.