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Topic: Heyyyyy My September Babies! Happy 6 month Anniversary!
Hey everyone...okay...we are all at that 6 month mark and I am curious as to how everyone is doing. How are your eating habits? Can you eat pretty much normaly now? What are you eating? What can you tolerate? What can you tolerate but STILL will not eat? What can you tolerate...and have given in to? How much are you down? Can you see your own weight loss? Are you at a stall?? Why is this board sooooooo dead
I NEED TO KNOW THESE THINGS PEOPLE!!!
Let me see if I can answer a few for myself
I don't know how great my eating habits are. I can pretty much eat what I want (or so I beleive..I haven't ventured out much beyond chicken, grilled pork chops and fish). I can tolerate a tad bit of surgar..up to about 8 grams...after that...its over , although I haven't "dumped" in a while...I don't wanna test the limits. I learned I can tolerate a little bread...but because that was my demond before surgery, I've only tried it once, and now I'm OVER it...no thanks..I'm so used to eating everything without bread now, that it really didn't satisfy anything at all.
I still can't see my weight loss. When I look at myself, I still see that 355lb woman looking back at me. I don't weight myself unless I have an appointment...cause it's just nerve wrecking! But my stats the last time I checked in early January were:
Highest Weight: 355
Day of Surgery: 327
Current as of 1/08: 240
Clothing size at highest: 32W
Current as of 1/08: 22P
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Topic: RE: getting in protein?
I agree, protein shakes are better than no protein at all. I feel the same way about my vitamins, some have to be taken a certain amount of time before eating, but if I don't just take them when I happen to remember, then I end up not taking them at all. I think as long as you are making an effort to get in solids, and not just having the shakes as a substitute, then you are making progress.
Topic: getting in protein?
I'm going through a few of those days that I can't get much down so I'm not getting in many calories. I don't want my body to go into "starvation" mode. Even though I'm not hungry, should I try to get in my protein through protein shakes-- because I can't get it in with solids? When I get a fill, the nurse practicioner says I shouldn't be drinking protein shakes for lunch and/ or dinner-- but should get in solid protein. Is it better to get the 60 grams in with liquid than not at all? Thanks--Ann
Topic: RE: Exercising
Rewarding yourself is a great idea. Perhaps also starting out with a SMALL amount of exercise. A trainer could also help motivate you. Have you tried yoga or pilates? Maybe a karate class? Perhaps there is an enclosed shopping area where you could walk?
I agree, you have to write it into your schedule or it just gets scheduled out. Perhaps you could find a good CD. Even dancing can be fun. Last yr. my husband & I signed up for lessons. Great exercise & lots of laughs. We were so bad that we decided to retake.
I hope this helps. Keep searching until you find something that you actually consider fun & don't want to miss. Watch the paper for free, intro lessons that are offered. A try-out can provide a no-fault opportunity. Sometimes hospitals may offer something, YMCA's, or your gym. As it warms up maybe tennis or golf lessons?
It's a constant struggle for me, too. As the the beach season approaches, walks won't work unless I have a parking pass or go late. It does help when I think of it as "fun."
Topic: RE: Exercising
Hi,
I'm in a rut like you. My weight loss has slowed this last month, so I definitely have to kick it into gear by exercising. I belong to a gym and do weight lifting followed by 30-40 mins of cardio 3-4 times a weeks, but since Christmas I've gotten to the gym probably about 6 times. Tomorrow I'm going to make Mon, Wed, & Fridays my workout days and that has to be the priority. Maybe, I'll set myself a treat like getting a manicure at the end of the week if I go at least 3 times.
Topic: Exercising
How is everyone doing with exercise? I know that I would have lost much more weight if I had been exercising all along. I was doing about 4 days a week of walking 30 - 40 minutes, but then my son had basketball games several nights a week, and then the weather got colder and wetter, excuses, excuses, excuses. I even have a tread mill with a TV in it!!! How do I get motivated again. Does anyone have a particular type of exercise that they really enjoy? I am not close enough to go to any water aerobics classes, and I think that I would really enjoy them. I am having a lot of trouble getting myself moving. Does anyone have suggestions?
Topic: RE: Our board is dead... I can't even lurk....
I occaisionally lurk here, but there isn't much to see most of the time. I can tolerate sweets, and I have to limit myself because I have no problems eating them. The only times I have had any issues were when I had 2 biscuits at once (needless to say, I will never do that again), and when I ate BBQ chicken wings. I stay away from soda and carbonated beverages too. I don't think I drink enough liquids though. I do see myself differently now, at times. I am still amazed that I can sit and cross my legs without having to move one leg over the other by pulling it with my hands and it hurting too bad to sit like that very long. I see myself sit in my office chair and realize that I don't take up the entire seat anymore, I can sit in the movie theater seats without touching the person next to me. I can't wait to go to an amusement park this year because last year we went and I only rode 3 rides because it was all I could do to fit into them and I was too embarrased to try anymore and be turned away. I feel light when I walk. I feel people's eyes on me now, and I don't feel like they are saying look at the fattest person in the room anymore. It feels wonderful. I am starting to get sagging skin though. I started out in July at 306 before my liver shrinking diet, on surgery day I was at 272, and now I am at 210. Only 4 pounds until I hit 100. I cant wait. Then I will set my goal at 199. One step at a time.
Topic: RE: Our board is dead... I can't even lurk....
I agree, not too much activity going on here. Well here are my stats:
surg date - Sept 10th
weight at time of surgery 285
current weight - 179
size @ time of surg 26/28
current size 14
I can pretty much tolerate anything except raw veggies (lettuce is okay) and white breads. I've even had an occasional sweet, I only have 2-3 bites at most and then I throw it away, I've never had more than that for fear of dumping.
I had a real first yesterday...I go to school at night and yesterday a girl said to me,.."you're so good, your always eating diet food, you're so skinny". I admitted to having Gastric Bypass surgery and the class was shocked. We spent the rest of the class discussing it and it ended up being a question and answer period towards me. I told my professor I wanted extra credit.
It's weird to experience other people's perception of me, especially the people who didn't know me prior to surgery. Most of my family is very supportive, some who are heavy are even know asking me more & more questions about the recovery period. I think they might be thinking of doing it.
I'll make it a point opon myself to post more so we can see some more activity on this forum!
Topic: RE: Our board is dead... I can't even lurk....
Heh, I thought I would come check out this board since today is the sixth month anniversary of my surgery. Seems dead, I have to agree.
Topic: RE: Our board is dead... I can't even lurk....
Oh I feel your pain, I have too seen the scale linger in the same spot and even gone up a pound and be like what the hell??? I've stayed away from the soda, but i have tampered with the sweets, popcorn, chips. Again not alot, im not stupid ;but enough to make me restrict myself to maybe 1 "craving (small portion) a week. This way I dont go nuts, but I dont deprive myself... except when it comes to soda and or carbonated beverages . I was told they were absolutly off limits so im treating them like so