How are you all doing two and a half years later?

I had VSG in September of 2007, I went from 235 to 156, and almost achieved my goal weight. 10 months post op I became pregnant with my beautiful little girl. After I had her in March 2009, I dropped a lot of weight fairly quickly and have put a lot of it on since. I´m now around 180.

I was wondering how any of you deal with setbacks.

Thanks for any comments you might have.
Marisa

 I had RNY in Sept 2007 and lost 140 ish pounds. In April of 2009 I gave birth to twin boys, I did great during my pregnancy with them and 2 weeks post partem I was 186lb.  Then we had a surprise pregnancy and baby boy #4 joined us in May of this year.  I am now up to 236lbs and feel like a failure.  With 4 boys under the age of 4 I can't get out much, my husband is in Guam and I just want to crawl in a hole.  

I need motivation but I can't seem to find it anywhere.