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Topic: RE: Getting to know you - Christmas Style!
1. Do you prefer Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate? Hot chocolate-never liked egg nog
2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? wrap
3. Colored or White lights on your tree/house? colored
4. Do you hang mistletoe? no
5. When do you put your decorations up? this year about a week after thanksgiving
6. What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)? pototo salad
7. What was your favorite Holiday memory as a child? I really dont know
8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? WHAT Truth about santa????? (i just sent him my letter)
9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? yes one
10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree? Lights first and then all over everywhere angel last
11. Snow! Love it or Dread it? I dread it
12. Can you ice skate? no
13. Do you remember your favorite gift? my favorite gift was a boom box raidio when i was 15 my mom got me it was something huge for me.
14. What's the most important thing about the Holidays for you?of course my kids and brothers sisters and my mom
15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? cookies
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? we do a name exchange with my familyy
17. What tops your tree? angel
18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving? giving
19. What is your favorite Christmas Song? o holy nite....which my daughter sang solo at church this year and it was beautiful.....i cry when i hear this song
20. Candy Canes -yuck or yummy? yuck
21. Favorite Christmas movie? frosty the snow man

Topic: RE: Getting to know you - Christmas Style!
Getting to know you - Christmas style!
1. Do you prefer Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate? HOT CHOCOLATE
2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? ALL WRAPPED
3. Colored or White lights on your tree/house? COLORED and white
4. Do you hang mistletoe? no
5. When do you put your decorations up? first weekend after thanks giving
6. What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)? stuffing
7. What was your favorite Holiday memory as a child? Waking up as a full family my mom my dad and all my sisters and brother christmas morning
8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? I was in kingergarden and some kids was telling my sisters I over heard them I was really upset and in denial
9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? YES
10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree? FROM TOP TO BOTTOM
11. Snow! Love it or Dread it? BOTH!!
12. Can you ice skate? Yes was quite good at it. When I lived in Mass we had a lake on base I use to skate on that lake daily. It was so much fun. I dreamed of being a professional ice skater and love watching it on TV I think If i had the training I could have been a profeesional. I just loved that. But that is only a dream
13. Do you remember your favorite gift? Barbies dolls barbie clothes
14. What's the most important thing about the Holidays for you? Being with my family
15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? Choclate covered cherries cherrie pie
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? Spending christmas eve with family and grandki
17. What tops your tree? Burgany angel
18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving? Giving
19. What is your favorite Christmas Song? Away in the manger
20. Candy Canes -yuck or yummy? Yuck
21. Favorite Christmas movie? i will be home for christmas
Topic: RE: Getting to know you - Christmas Style!
Hi Paula, okay I give up -- so who was the Santa!! It sounds like your sibs took really good care of you. That's nice.
I love the Chevy Chase movie too!! It's a hoot. The lights, the neighbors (I didn't even know at first that that was Elayne!!), the squirrel in the tree, it's just a really good movie.
Christmas is much more special and fun with little ones Paula, enjoy it, as I know you do. When we go home and see all the grandkids it just makes it special. When it's just the two of us -- well, boring!! My husband would feel so bad if he saw that I said that, but it's true!! He always says 'we have fun by ourselves'. Oh well, sob sob. But you have fun with your little ones Paula, and don't feel sorry for me!!! (ha ha -- this is what I always tease my daughters with -- they just laugh at me and tell me I had my season).
much love
donna

Topic: RE: Getting to know you - Christmas Style!
. Do you prefer Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate? Egg nog at the holidays w/ a bit of alcohol in it, but since surgery, haven't had it...Hot chocolate, sugar and fat free all winter long.
2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? wraps them. I just did them. Anna gets one color santa paper and timmy gets another color santa paper...no tags and faking signatures involved...it's great!
3. Colored or White lights on your tree/house? white lights...but, in reality, I love the colored ones..
4. Do you hang mistletoe? no...I kiss everyone all year long!
5. When do you put your decorations up? A week or so after Thanksgiving. we keep them up until 3 king's day in Jan, so, I don't want to get tired of them. I'm loving the tree this year, though...the kids put on the decorations this year and did a great job. They're growing way too fast.
6. What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)? pierogi...Polish dumplings with sauerkraut inside...potato ones too...
7. What was your favorite Holiday memory as a child? My sibilings were about 15-20 years older than me, so, they'd put out the Santa gifts after I was asleep, but, they couldn't wait for the morning, so, they'd wake me up in the middle of the night and say, "paula, santa was here, come down and see"..so, sleepily, I'd go down, open up all my stuff, pick something to take to bed (usually a new dolly) and first thing in the morning start playing...(I think my parents allowed this cause my dad was drunk and wanted to sleep late)
Another time, they woke me up and said "paula, santa IS downstairs, come see him. I was beyond myself. Sleepy eyed, I spotted him...I climbed up on his lap for a minute, but he told me he had a lot of work to do to get all the toys to the kids. They took a poloroid shot of me with him and it was great...the poloroid was proof the next morning that I wasn't dreaming!
8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? I was a snoop! I would go up to the attic and find all the wrapped gifts. Probably kids at school, too. I was older, though. I'd unwrap all the stuff and then retape it. So, come Christmas, I knew what each gift was. To this day, I hate surprises!
9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? Our family exchanges our gifts on Christmas Eve...It's a Polish tradition...and a family one. Santa gifts are opened on Christmas Morning.
10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree? Toys...lots of Santas, birds, wooden ornaments, ones I've gotten on vacation, yearly ones to look back on. ones the kids have made so far...white lights, start on top
11. Snow! Love it or Dread it? Both.. but love it when it starts and get all excited. Hate to shovel it or drive in it. But, it doesn't slow me down. I've lived in New England all my life!
12. Can you ice skate? Haven't ice skated since high school....Not that I'm thinner, I'd love to take the kids to URI and skate at the rink.
13. Do you remember your favorite gift? Yes...too many to list. They are all wonderful. Both my first husband and now Bob always seem to get me what I ask for and both had/have wonderful taste.
14. What's the most important thing about the Holidays for you? That my savior, Jesus Christ was born to save me of my sins. The greatest gift of all...And, to sit and reflect on what a wonderful husband and children and family I have.
15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? hmmmmmm...hard one...
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? gifts....
17. What tops your tree? star...usually was an angel up until two years ago. Next year, I'm going back to the angel. I also have a blessed mary holding Jesus that I may bring out again, too.
18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving? definately giving...
19. What is your favorite Christmas Song? O Holy Night and Silent Night...Christian....It's the Most Wonderful Time Of The Year...secular
20. Candy Canes -yuck or yummy? YUMMY
21. Favorite Christmas movie? Christmas Vacation w/ Chevy Chase...hysterical...
Topic: RE: Boyfriend Feels regected
Only you know what's best as far as your boyfriend. I will say that if it were me I would not jump from the frying pan into the fire. I would live on my own.
As for the retirement - in NYS it's a 50/50 thing. Should you take your share - Yup it's yours and you're going to need it.
I wish you a blessed and peaceful holiday.
Micha
Topic: RE: Getting to know you - Christmas Style!
okay, I'm first!!
Getting to know you - Christmas style!
1. Do you prefer Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate? HOT CHOCOLATE
2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? ALL WRAPPED
3. Colored or White lights on your tree/house? COLORED
4. Do you hang mistletoe? YES - LOTS OF IT!
5. When do you put your decorations up? I'M EARLY, THANKSGIVING WEEKEND
6. What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)? TURKEY
7. What was your favorite Holiday memory as a child? GOING CAROLING WITH MY COUSINS
8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? I WAS ABOUT 10 - SOMEONE IN MY CLASS TOLD ME. I WAS OLD!!
9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? YES
10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree? FROM TOP TO BOTTOM
11. Snow! Love it or Dread it? BOTH!!
12. Can you ice skate? NOPE
13. Do you remember your favorite gift? A BIKE
14. What's the most important thing about the Holidays for you? BEING WITH MY FAMILY (WHICH I WON'T BE THIS YEAR- BOO HOO)
15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? FUDGE (BUT NOTHING ANY MORE)
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? SPENDING CHRISTMAS EVE WITH ALL MY FAMILY
17. What tops your tree? AN ANGEL
18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving? GIVING FOR SURE
19. What is your favorite Christmas Song? O HOLY NIGHT
20. Candy Canes -yuck or yummy? YUCK
21. Favorite Christmas movie? ELF -- LOVE THAT MOVIE!!
Topic: Getting to know you - Christmas Style!
Getting to know you - Christmas style!
Hi Friends - well it's not like we're all not just slammin' right now, but I thought this would be a little diversion for us! Wanna play!!
love
donna
1. Do you prefer Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate?
2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree?
3. Colored or White lights on your tree/house?
4. Do you hang mistletoe?
5. When do you put your decorations up?
6. What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)?
7. What was your favorite Holiday memory as a child?
8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa?
9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve?
10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree?
11. Snow! Love it or Dread it?
12. Can you ice skate?
13. Do you remember your favorite gift?
14. What's the most important thing about the Holidays for you?
15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert?
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition?
17. What tops your tree?
18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving?
19. What is your favorite Christmas Song?
20. Candy Canes -yuck or yummy?
21. Favorite Christmas movie?

Topic: RE: Boyfriend Feels regected
Yes I am on social security. Thank god for that. I get 1090.00 a month. I worked many years and deserve that. since im not able to work. Putting up with Daves being so cruel for so many years. I feel i desreve some of his pension and even some allomony. He agreed to pay allomony because he knows i need many pills each month.
My family I am sick of my sisters and my dad putting their nose in my business. They are not walking in my shoes. I have washed my hands of them as well. Until they can learn how to treat me with respect.
Take Care
Barb
Topic: RE: Boyfriend Feels regected
Barb,
Heres my advice for what it is worth....
I believe in the 6 month rule, whenever you end a relationship of any sort give it 6 months before moving on to anything, give it time to fester and sort it's self out. Find out who you are and what you want and such and in 6 months if you want to move in with the bf still do so if not then don't...Live for Barb now and from now on.
As far as the pension I think if your legally entitled to it take it, you earned it or they wouldn't give it to you.
Kids and dogs adjust eventually too it's just new and different right now
I love you barb and wish you only the best and only you can decide what that is , and I will support you no matter what you decide.
Big Hugs,
Shel
Topic: RE: Back from reconstructive surgery!
WOW, Shannon...you've had a lot done. Congrats! The new you image must be something. Once the swelling goes down, you'll be one hot mama!
Did your insurance pay for any of it?
How did you come to pick the plastic surgeon? I don't know where to start.
I would love a boob lift and a small implant (full C) I'm so droopy now, I have NO idea what size I truly am.
Have fun.
paula