Very stuck and actually gained. Can't seem to hold below 170 and it is killing me. On the good side, for the first time I feel like a normal person who can't seem to lose the last 20 pounds. At support the other day, we discussed that in order to maintain once you hit 165 (thats were I was) you eat 1400 cal. So it is back to fit day and more exercise. I can hardly wait for spring- though here in New England we just had our first real cold spell, so no excuses here.... donna

33. Find Myself Find Out What I want in LIFE (Did That)

I was stuck at the same for like 4 months. I just started losing again and im 148. But with all i am going threw im surprised im not gaining or losing more. My eating habits are weird. One day good next day bad. I did step it up on the workouts. With my botfriend being a weight trainer after work. He spots all my flaws. I hate that. But he is working with me. He told me. My stomach would take around 3 years to get it how i want it. With alot of work. ( Guess what. I still havent told him I had gastric bypass. I told him I lost 40 pounds. Im afraid to tell him. Also I have another man asking me out for a date. Do you guys think I need to go on a date with him? He is only 37 im 49. He said he only likes older ladys. Think I should go for it. Need to not put all my eggs in one basket. But I also no I dont need to be a **** So Im being careful. Single life is great. I never in my million years thought I could feel like this again. The other day. I cryed with happiness. Life is so short. Thank you all for pulling for me. Donna. Your right. That weight lifted is amazing watching them leave was hard. But you got to do what makes you healthy and happy. Grandkids are so glad the grumpy ass is gone Take care Hus to all Barb Im going to post new pis. I have shorts on. dont wear them in public just at home Take Care Barb Hugs and love to you all Shel sweety im thinking of you mommy

Ila, I am so sorry. It is such a tragedy to lose such a young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My husband and I just joined a group called Patriot Guard Riders. It is our way to show respect to all the fallen soldiers. I hope that you won't need them, but if it does go bad, please accept our condolences. donna

(((((((((((Hugs)))))))))) You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers Shel