A picture Of my boyfriend Dale that you all hear about so much

He wants to marry me . I told him I would give a answer in 3 months. http://i29.photobucket.com/albums/c291/barbie5414/dale.jpg

very nice looking. Good luck with your decision. why 3 months? How are you feeling now? Koukla

Very handsome....but why the rush? Why is he putting a time limit on you? What if you need more time? Is he gonna end it? All these things to ponder. Barb, you were in an unhappy place for SO long, I know we've all told you to take time to be by yourself and take it slow...I don't see you doing this at all. Why do you need to be married so quickly? Is Dale afraid that you're gonna leave him or something? Have you not told him that it's an exclusive relationship? Only you truly know what to do, Barb, but with your history of diving head first into all things, try to sit back and take a look and how it all "looks" to you...as it looks to us...like it's going WAY too quickly. We just don't want to wake up one day to a post by you that you're in a deep depression because you made the wrong decision too quickly. Just my 2 cents, here. Paula

good luck Barb... I have to say - I agree with Paula 100% on this!!! what's the rush????? if he loves you he will wait for you to be ready...you've been thru too much to rush back in!!! Paula's 2 cents + mine = 4 cents! Linda

Barb, I am bummed, I couldn't see the picture. I would have to agree with everyone else, take your time- Have some fun. My husband and I are still having alot of problems and I can't imagine if we split up that I would want to jump right back into any kind of relationship. Just think about all the fun you can have with friends and get to know your single self better. Maybe you will realize that being single isn't so bad! Now you have 6 cents! Hugs, Christine

Here is my 2cents. Take your time, why rush. If he wants to feel secure have him buy you a big diamond and then when you are ready, there you go. Best of luck