My husband and I wor...

My husband and I work together and I think he may be a little jealous. He's 5'10 and weighs about 210 pounds and holds it in his upper body. The last few nights (working the dinner shift) people have been coming up to us and asking him when he's going to start to lose his weight............... He doesn't seem too happy about it. He does try, just like we all tried before. And I do notice he does try to make me eat more than I want to. When I finish he'll tell me I have to have more because that wasn't enough. HELLO...... I tell him I'm still in the 180's and that I could go down a little more and he says No the rest is extra skin. you're skinny enough.............. Anyone else seeing this with their husbands or significant other? thanks, Koukla

Hi Koukla, well I've told you all before that my husband has gained since I have been losing. And I feel so bad for him. I can't say anything because he never ever said anything to me. And also I know that it doesn't do any good for anyone else to say things to you, you have to do it yourself. But my husband is definitely not a jealous person. He acts flattered when I get attention!! Go figure! Greg doesn't really try to get me to eat more, I guess he has seen me puke too many times to know that isn't a good idea. But I know that he misses his eating partner. He'll call me from work and say 'would you like to meet for dinner, or that isn't really a fun thing for you anymore'. I always say yes (although it doesn't mean much to me) and try to join in!! It's weird, this surgery. Reallly has changed my way of eating. I think Koukla, when those people say that, you ought to just put your arm around your husband and say 'I love this guy just like he is'!! love donna

Tell them your hoping he's not going to be losing weight because he very sexy to you just the way he is and you wouldn't want him any other way and you were the one with the problem not him....lol When hubby came home we was 5'10 and 185 lbs , you know my but went right to feedin him and fattin him back up hehehe I don't like scrawny men never have never will, I seem to like them best between 220 and 240. My hubby points out all the time when I worry about the weight that I must have like 30-50 lbs of skin saggin so I should take that off the scale weight, and then the 20% my surgeon gives for bone mass left from obesity ...bless his little delusional heart...lol As far as eating more hubby used to ask about it but not in a you should eat more way and I would explain to him that even if I thought I wanted more the pouch just would not allow it , now that I'm pregnant he giggles now and then because on a good day I can eat 2 oz of meat or cottage cheese, 1/2 cup of veggies and fruit, he says it's just weird watching me eat twice as much now, and I think to myself was I really eating so little b4? Shel