reached major goal on my goal list in my profile never dreamed it

33. Find Myself Find Out What I want in LIFE (Did That)

I am glad things are starting to improve for you. You do deserve it. I never made a goal list like that. There were things in my head that I thought...the biggest one was being able to use a normal towel ... which i can now.. I've had a struggling marriage for years. I am just to scared of change to do anything about it. My dh.(dumb husband???) is hard to live with, we fight most of the time. which i know isn't good for my kids, but it's easier to stay than leave. I am glad goal 33 was answered for you

Heidi, Change is hard, I settled for years because i was afraid of change. I never believed I would turn out to be so brave. You all know how it was so hard for me to leave this marraige. because i didnt belive I could do it alone. I am glad we dont have kids because it made it much easier. Heidi if your not happy find some independance and make your life good. We all have changed with this surgery. Its helped some of the relationships others the surgery destroyed the relationships that was already in trouble to begin with. and mine was. Do what you feel you need to do. For the kids . It isnt good for them. My grandsons live here. and they was so happy to see Dave go because he was so hateful moody not very pleasent. It is amazing how happy are home is now. Without all that negative energy. Hugs Barb