New year very hard so far. Need a kick

Husband and I are still living together. He knows all about my friend I told him everything. and he said it is okay. He wants to stay married and he said i can still see my boyfriend. Well this is so strange. He lets me go over there and everything.... I need to file for a divorce and end this. Why would my husband let this go on. Why wont he let go. He calls me up over there now. This is so weird. Does he really think we can continue to live like this. He is acting like we are room mates. Do you guys think this can work out? I stay over there at his house. He just acts like its nothing, Hummmm I just dont get it. Daughters are in shock and said this is the strangest marraige they have ever seen. But we do get along better now that we are ( Room mates) Take Care Barb

Barb, Not sure I have much advice...more support than advice: Ya gotta do what is right for you!! The situation does sound a little strange but on the other hand, try not to make any rash decisions. I know you have been through a lot in the past year and longer, so be careful and cautious about anymore life changing decisions. Are you seeing a counselor? Talking it out with some impartial person is sometimes helpful to find out what your motives are for doing what you do. I know it helps for me. Know I am thinking of you and wishing you the best. Take care, jacqueline

wow, I just read the last post on your profile and I agree. My life is havoc, and people hate me now because I wear a size 4 ( I am only 5'2 so I think that is chunky) YOU LOOK GREAT!!!

He Moved out Thursday. When he read all my emails to my boyfriend. I took a shower and left my laptop open. So he really seen the true light and left. He said I can have the house if me and my daughter can make payments. We are going to give it are best. Im living here for awhile. so I can get all my emotions togther. I need to make sure this is the man I want. Take Care and hugs and happy new years