Holiday Picture Time

I hope that everyone doesn't think I am bragging because I am not, this has actually got me kind of upset. Anyway we went for our Holiday picture last weekend. I was actually looking forward to getting it taken this year. No more hiding in the back to cover my big butt. I wore a really pretty red v- cut shirt with a black tank top underneath it. Needless to say I made them put me in the back after the first three picturesbecause I look absolutely horrible. I guess I never really noticed it before but I look sick. You can see all my bones in my chest and collar bone. I really don't want to complain about being too thin, but it is kind of scary. I will have to post a picture soon. I just feel like I have gone from one extreme to the next. I am not really watching what I eat anymore and I haven't gained any weight. ANyone have some suggestions? Chris

Hi Chris, I feel like you do sometimes. But I am not sure if what we are seeing the collar bones, etc. are just normal and we've never seen them before. It's funny, sometmes when I lie on my side, I feel the top of my thigh (kinky right!!) and I can feel a strong muscle. I am so surprised. I never knew I had those bones. It's so weird. I am a true believer in your body stops losing when it gets to where it should be. So enjoy your lovely new figure and come out of hiding!! You're a beautiful girl, or beuatiful young woman if girl is offensive!! By the way, feel free to call me 'girl' anytime you want. love donna

Hey Chris I understand exactly what you are saying and don't worry it does not come accross bad. At the point when I started to see my chest bone (not my collar bones but my sternum in between my boobs) I realized I was looking too thin on top. Even though in my mind I would like to lose a couple of lbs in HOPES of losing it from my bottom half, I know in reality it would only continue to make my top half thinner so I have stopped trying to lose. I am hoping that once I stay where I am for a while and things balance out that maybe somehow that area will go back to looking normal. I'm afraid if I tried to gain any back it would go to the wrong places with my luck. You do need to post a pic, I can't give my honest opinion without seeing an updated picture but you look great in your avatar!