DH Moved out tonight

We decided this was best. He moved out. We decided to make this a civil divorce and split everything 50/50 and sell the house.And to remain friends. Im moving out in Aug. I feel releived but kind of scared at the same time. My family is very upset. Dad and sisters. But they dont walk in my shoes either. My family needs to mind their own business. My husband went to their house tonight to whine. Makes me mad. He is at his Parents house now. Confused. But feel like I made a big step. Im really upset and sick to my stomach. Barb

Hang in there girl. Been there, done that,,long ago. It is scary, but just take one day at a time. We are here for you so keep posting. Change is difficult, but sometimes so necessary. Take care!! You are in my prayers! Betsy

((( Barb )))))

Hey Barb, Hang in there. I hope that this will bring you some peace finally. Don't worry about what other people think, they don't know all of what your going through. I am glad that your trying to do this civil- it is a hard enough process as it is. good luck donna

Hi Barb, well it's not surprise, but it's still difficult isn't it. You'll be fine. You're a tough girl!! Moving out (as I remember, and I too have been there done that) is the hardest first step (unless you have children that you have to tell, then that is the worse). Once the move out is done, you can sort of move on. Take care, and check in more!! I miss you, honey. love donna

Barb My thoughts are with you hun. Now take time and get to really know yourself again. We need to be our own best friends to make it through our journeys. I think thats the biggest mistake I made along the way was to forget about me and only concentrate on others. Take it slow. I hope it does stay amicable and you are able to remain friends. Big Hugs your way. Tammy O

Barb, No this did not come as a surprise, but I am sur it is still very hard on you. Just keep your chin up and if you need anything let us know. I know I haven't been posting much lately, but I haven't ben very healthy, anyway if you need anything I am just a e-mail or phone call away. Christine

Barb, Sending ((((HUGS)))). Micha

Oh Barb, I'm so sorry for you. But only you know what is right. and you are a beautiful girl inside and out so I'm sure you will be just fine. Change is always hard. but you must move on. Good luck. And we're here to help. Koukla

thinking of you, sweetie! Pam