Dr Took Me off Lasix

Dr took me off Lasix and I have gained 7 pounds. That has put me up to 171. I think that has alot to do with my depression. I feel so swelled. But he said I will lose that back in a month. He said the Lasix is really hard on your kidneys. I went camping with my husband For a full week. and tried to work it out again. It was the camping trip from hell. He treated me like a dog. Called me names would not help with nothing. My nerves are shot. I am stuttering today. It was a very bad week. I feel like I am a nerves wreck. My friend is telling me it is over until I divorce. He is not happy with the camping trip. He said I need to get ther divorce and get away from Dave or he will have nothing to do with me. I have been sick to my stomach since the trip. Dave has me a nerves wreck. Dave said he will not get a divorce. and does not listen to it when I talk to him. Looks like I have to leave. My daughter graduated last week. I told her she needs to save for a apartment. That way I can do what needs done. I wish I had a crystal ball. I wish I could look into the future. I think I am going thru menapause. I cant make up my mind. Take Care Barb

Morning Barb, You still have so much on your plate....Take a deep breath and try one step at a time. I would help your daughter out first. That seems like the easiest thing. You must be so proud of her. As far as the men in your life... do what you think is best. Don't let them pressure you one way or the other. Remember that you own your own feelings. Nobody can tell you what to think or feel. I am curious on why you went camping? Did you have to? Were you trying to work things out to reconcile or hoping to talk about moving the divorce along? Good luck and keep talking it out.... donna

I was hoping to talk and work things out civil. We had this planned for months. all my sisters went in their campers and I wanted to see them. So he came along. It was horrible. He treated me so bad. My sisters said they dont see how I deal with it. Dale is done with me until I do something. This trip did him in. Im a very lost person right now Thanks for careing Hugs Barb

Barb, Take things one thing at a time and it'll all fall into place. Give the entire situation up to God and let him take care of it. Dale is giving you the time and space you need to make your decisions. I think that's a good thing. If he's in the picture right now, it make just complicate things more. If he really loves you, he'll wait. Help your daughter out, get her on her feet and get yourself the hell out of that house. Dave seems like a total Bas**** and you need to be rid of him. You've done your trying and it didn't work. How long will you be a door mat for him to walk all over? Don't worry about the water weight gain from going off the Lasix. Your kidneys will adjust and you'll be fine. Take some deep breaths and try to stay calm. THings WILL work out. paula

hey Barb... You seem to be caught between a rock and a hard place...and it seems to me (not knowing the entire story) that you need to get out of there for your own well being. In my opinion your friend is putting a lot of pressure on you and is not very understanding of what you're going through. Even if you DO leave and file for divorce it could be years before it's final. It just took me 2 1/2 years of my life to get divorced and now I am just waiting on the judges signature to make it FINAL.. Would you please email me...I would like to help you in any way I can! been there, done that, sent him packing with the t-shirt and wouldn't wi**** on my worst enemy (well maybe my worst ) hugssssss....Linda

Thinking of you. It is Friday and the weekend is here. Stay strong. Surround yourself with good and positive people and thoughts. Remember one step at a time and you can survive anything. donna

Donna, Thank you so much for your positive thoughts. I hate the weekends. You know how it is around here on the weekends. With him off work. I Have to get out. I went out last night and had a good time. It was our aniversary. He sleeped and I partied. Thats not good is it. Hmmmm Something is wrong with this picture. Take Care Hugs Barb