I'm not gonna be here .....

Theres alot of stuff going on and I don't feel I can be in any way productive in being supportive, I do wish you all the best and lots of success. I love you all my wonderful family and Goodbye Love Shel

Shel - I understand about having stuff going on, but remember that we're here if YOU need someone to be supportive. *hugz* --BT

Shelly, Don't go! We need you here! You may be in a "funk" right now, and you don't have to post at all, just make sure you lurke to maybe get something postitive out of this. Post about what's going on with you and what's making you so depressed. Maybe someone here can add a bit of their wisdom and maybe say something that'll help you out just a tiny bit. I'd sure like to give whatever's bothering you my two cents! I've been dealing with a lifetime of depression and panic disorder. I know how it feels to be in a pit and feel like you can't get out. Are you on medication? Sometimes just a short round of medicine (especially for recent WLS patients) and a short term of therapy helps. Have you looked into this? Please do, for your sake. You're SO worth it. Please take a few minutes to tell us all what's going on, ok? Paula

Shelly with all you've been through take all the time you need but remember that everyone is here for you. Stop by and just say hi if you get the chance. good luck with everything. donna

Shel, you probably won't believe this, but you need us more than ever now. Really Shelly, you do. Please don't lose touch with us. You don't have to be alone now, you don't even have to post. But just keep coming back!! Just don't lose us - we want you, we need you Shelly. And I was going to tell you yesterday, that we ought to come up with a time and meet in the chat room every few days. What do you say -- even if it's just the two of us?? Please -- love donna

Shel, We are your friends. Please dont leave us. Let us know what we can do to help you. You look so beautiful and are doing so great with your weight loss. Hugs Barb

Look what Im going thru. Most people here on the board dont like me. They think Im am doing wrong. ( But Im Not ) They Dont live in my shoes. I keep coming back. I need the support of the few people who do care about me. You are support to all of us. We need you here !!!!! Please dont leave us. Hugs Barb

Barb, I hope people aren't judging you! They would need to walk a mile in your shoes first. I was thinking of you over the weekend and hoped that all was going ok. donna

Donna, It is bad here. I dread the weekend. Him home all weekend treating me like a dog and sleeping all day. My daughter Guaduates from beauty school sat. We are having her a party. He will more than likely sleep thru it. Or get up enough to embarrass me and then go back to sleep. God I hate the weekends. Thanks for your support I wish I could get this behind me without all the turmoil. I dont know whats going to happen. I need to get a restarining order. But he has never hit me. He has pushed me down but never left any marks. So I cant do that. He is so fruity right now. He just sits there and sairs off into space. I guess I will find out Thanks Barb