All hell broke lose last night Sunday gossip as the world turns

Im getting a divorce !!!!!! My husband knows I am seeing someone. You can all think bad of me. But I am in love with this man. He is retired airforce 48 years old. and has a great job. Good person. He makes me happy. We walk all the time we see each other all the time.. He runs 7 miles a day. He is a dream come true. And on top of all this guy is a good looking a hunk ( A hot one) ( beautiful body ) I did not come home last night. My boyfriend wants me to move in. I cant do nothing until my daughter moves out with her kids. So I am stuck here with him. and he is being a real ass. My boyfriends name is Dale he is looking to settle down. He said he wants me in his life forever !!!!! We are so alike. I feel like heaven when I am with him. He talks to me !!!!!!!!!!!! He said he is going to kidnap me. He said I am the most beautiful woman in the world !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Been seeing him for about 4 months !!!! Wellllllllllllll lets here some feed backkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk Wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww Barb

Need to becareful. For some reason dumped hubby wants me to go fishing with him today !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont want to end up in the lake deadddddd

Barb, I don't know what to say. I'm glad that you're happy with your changed lifestyle. I cannot comment on the situation with your husband because in my personal opinion, I feel what you did (have an affair) was wrong. Does this "new man" not even care that you are a married woman? This makes me question his character. I've never been in this situation, so I can't judge, but my husband was cheated on in his first marriage and I know that it hurt him deeply and took a long time to get over. I just don't understand or know why people decide to cheat before getting out of the bad relationship first. No hard feelings, I don't want to judge you and I'm not in your own shoes, so I'll just end this in saying, good luck. paula

I guess my husband cheating with my sister 8 years ago wasnt bad. I havent been happy for many years. He doesnt even talk to me. He has nothing to do with me hasnt in many years. All he does is sleep all the time. and work. He is depressed. grumpy cusses all the time. and is into *****n the internet really bad. I am a good woman. I need to get out of this. Yes you are right what I am doing is wrong and is not something I just did. I gave this alot of thoiught and backed out for weeks and couldnt stay away. I am married to a creep.

Barb, I'm glad that you can see a light through the tunnel and are getting out of a bad marriage and hopefully into a better relationship where you will be happy. There is a lot more to this saga that only you know and I have no right to judge what you are doing. I just with you love, peace and joy in your life. Good luck, paula

Ah sweet Barb, what a time you are going through. I know you've been in this situation for some time. Trust me, I know that there is nothing worse than being in a miserable marriage. Life is too short. It is too bad that you were unable to end it before Dale came in the picture. That's always complications. But it is what it is! Barb, don't beat yourself up, you have your life to live. I am definitely not one to suggest 'affairs' are a good thing. But I'm smart enough to know that sometimes things happen. And if you could replay them, maybe you would do it differently. But we don't have that option. I think when you posted you really did want feedback, like you said. I don't know if you want people to say do it, don't do it, but I think that is something only you can say. What I will say is he sounds wonderful - sounds like a dream come true for you - sounds like he will give you a good life. But be careful! Don't put yourself out there, and get hurt. You're very vulnerable right now. I love you Barb, I hope you feel that. I'm always here to talk to you, by email, if you want, or even by phone -- heck, I have unlimited minutes!!! Be happy Barb!! love donna

Donna, I am in love with this guy. He can fix anything. He is a handy man. A real MAN !!!!! He makes wooden crafts/ His house is spotless. Beautiful. My husband is a slob. My husband cant even change a light bulb. I can do anything home repair.. I remolded 2 homes on my own. My husband bithched the wholetime if I ask him for help. Dale has a motor cycle. We go out riding we talk talk talk. Hold hands all the time. He said he loved me. we talk More than me and my husband has in years. He said I am beautiful. I know I am vulnerable. I just melt when I am around him. He makes me feel like a woman. He said I am sexy !!!! Wow me sexy wow. He is my age. I am 9 years older than my husband. Dale has brown eyes brown hair. My husband has blond hair blue eyes. Never liked blonds. Married him for all the wrong reasons. Dales garage is spotless. In his garage is all his wood working stuff. and hanging up is his desert storm clothes and boots. HOT I TELL YOU HOTTTTTT !!!!! wow we email each other a thousand time a day !!!! I dont like to talk on the phone. Neighbors have scanners. They are nosey. We meet alot !!!! Last night I feel asleep in his arms. I didnt care !!!! Came home and basiclly told my husband I want a divorce he said is there anyone else. I rather not say. Then he tried to have sex !!!! I told him no that will never happen agin. He said was you with someone last night. I said I rather not say. He has acted terrible all day !!!! Typing this and talking about this helps me. He new this was comming. I have tried everything to make it right. He just didnt get it. Now it is over. I in love dale.

They say that WLS makes good marriage better and bad marriages worse. At least you knew which yours was before you went into this. I, too, don't condone affairs, but at least you knew your marriage was over *before* you met this guy, and aren't throwing away a good man over it. I hope that your new man is everything you believe he is.....but if he is not, know that someone better will come along. God didn't bring you this far to drop you. As for sticking around......If your daughter is old enough to have kids, she is old enough to not need you to stick around while she sorts her life out. --BT

BT, The only reason I do what I am for my daughter is she is a recoving addict. I took custody of both her boys. ( She got them back)That devastated her and changed her whole life around. She got a quick carreer.Cosmoltogy She graduates in 2 weeks. She meet a wonderful man that doesnt smoke or drink and is very happy with her life. She had to pay off all her dept that she build up while in her drug days. She is a wonderful girl and I am so proud of her. I just want her to get a place before this happens. I would love to see her marry this wonderful man. Fingers are crossed. Your right any other kids that age. It is time to untie the apron. That will become all untied here in a few months. And I will not be strapped down with her and the kids. Now she is a wonderful mother and daughter, Drugs can really mess up a person. She is fully recovered and loves her new life. Still very active in her recovery after 2 years. She is amazing. A wonderful young lady that got messed up with the wrong man. That try to destroy her. Take Care Hugs Barb

Barb, I really applaud you for sticking around for your daughter and grandkids. You know what a battle she had and cudos to her for turning her life around, going back to school and will now have a career. That had to be the toughest thing in her life to do. You have to be one hell of a mom and grandma to stick around in a prison and wait until she's totally on her feet. You are special for what you're doing for your family. It'll be a great day when you all can get out of that house and start your new lives! I'm so sorry if I offended you in my post. I am NOT without sin, so I had no right to judge you or your life. Only you are in your shoes and can say what goes. I met my husband by answering his personal ad in the newspaper (I was widowed for almost a year) and in six months we were married, and that was 10 1/2 years ago! So, anything is possible. Be happy! paula