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Topic: RE: Please help us!! We're a year behind!
hey donna!!! My name is manda and i have went fom 352 to 179lbs... yes it was great being at that 179 lb mark but bc of percosets that my doc had me on for 11 months i gained 20+ lbs and trust me i am working my tail off to get rid of them. Its hard. I aint gonna lie. And i gained all that even doing exercising. I am now back down to 199 lbs... It is frustrating bc i had all my excess ..well most of it removed and then here came all 25 lbs back that they whacked off. As for my eating you just have to be strong. Even after 2 yrs i dont do sugar i dont do i carbs i dont do soda... well you get the picture. After ur first yr you should know what ur tummy will let you have and you should know how much you need for intake. Dont get me wrong i have SF ice cream in my freezer and well i have had it for 4 months and i finally gave up and told superman to eat it. Which in 1 sittin he did just that. I am just trying to be normal now. I still have problems with looking at myself in the mirror. i still tell myself that i am a cow... I have just now figured out that people are not stairing at me bc i am fat its bc they think i am pretty. This whole thing is a mental process. Now is the time to battle that part head on. I HAD a goal of 150 lbs but my sis kept telling me that i looked sick and i was at 180 so i gave up on my goal i wish i had never done that. But all in all you have to except you. I still do protein shakes daily i still watch and make sure i dont over ounces at meals. this is our new life WE are our own personal trainers. SO you must trust urself in doing the right thing
Topic: RE: Low Blood Sugar anyone??
Hi Sherry,
Looks like alot of us are having this same problem with low blood sugar. There has been several times lately that I have felt bad and would check my sugar. And it would be low.
A wk ago, I got sick.. dizzy, nausea and numb feeling all over. Hubby helped me ck my blood sugar. It was 35. I had broke out in a sweat... honestly thought that my life on this earth was over.. That's how bad that I felt. He fixed me 2 peanut butter and crackers and it made me feel better.
I have to keep a ck on my blood sugar now. On good days it runs 70 and below.
Hope all works out for you.
Jo
Topic: RE: 2 years this month we are celebrating!
Hi there - Yes, I can't believe in a couple weeks it will be 2 years!! It's a happy/sad emotions..so much has happened to me during this time. Had gallbladder removal, tonsillectomy since then also stomach problems that they can't figure out. Low blood sugars, bulemia and possible liver malnutrition...but I would not give up what I have gained..friends, a new personality, confidence, being able to have a life without some physical challenges..and so much more.. Given a chance - I'd do it all over again.
(Even though I have 20-30lbs more to lose, LOL).
Topic: RE: 2 years this month we are celebrating!
Hi guys, happy anniversary. It is so hard to think back to what my life was like two years ago. I am still amazed daily at how much my body has changed and how much different my life is.
I retired in June to stay home with my disabled husband and spend more quality time with him in hopes of working more on his physical therapy myself to see if we can get him stronger to do some traveling. Seems to be working. Can't get used to being retired. Seems like I should have a schedule or something and each day I feel I need to accomplish something. Hubby laughs because I have about five projects going at the same time. He keeps waiting for me to burn out.
My starting weight was 299.5 and I'm at 160 this morning. I am looking into PS to remove the excess skin from my belly as it is starting to cause me problems with both my back and I now think the problems I have been having with my stomach is caused by the excess pulling of the hanging skin. My doctor says that I have about 10 lbs of excess skin that they will be removing. I'm not sure why but I am more afraid of going through the PS than I was with my RNY surgery. I think it is because the message boards are full of complications, results not as expected, bad surgeons, etc.
My life now is amazing. I love every new day. For the most part I am pain free almost every day and I cannot believe my energy level and the fact that I got my self esteem back. I actually like myself now.
Wishing you all much success and happiness in your new lives. Thank goodness of WLS.
Topic: RE: 2 years this month we are celebrating!
Hi Doreen and all our September '04 buddies...
Congrats to all of us for reaching this milestone! It's good to hear how much happier and healthier everyone is now! Perfection wasn't what we were shooting for when we took this on... improvement in our life and health was what we wanted so desperately, and it sounds like the vast majority, if not all of us, have achieved that as we meet again here on our 2 yr anniversaries. That in and of itself is damn exciting! I doubt if most of us would be finding ourselves even fifty pounds thinner today, had we not had the courage to have surgery and walk the road that followed. As I sit here and let my sublingual b-12 melt away under my tongue , I just want to wish you all continued health and peace with your decision that led us all to meet here, and many happy days ahead enjoying our better health!
My update: I'm still the same pretty much! Still feel like I can eat alot, still snackier than I want to be on alot of days, but overall WAY healthier eater than I've ever been in my life. My weight is pretty stable, I havent lost anything new in about one year. In fact, I was at my lowest weight on my one year anniversary, and have settled down around 8 lbs above that now and hang out at that weight pretty much. I'd like to lose another 20 lbs or so. I went for my tummy tuck consult, and the doctor said I have two hernias, and have about 75% chance of getting the tummy tuck covered because I do have a pretty "good" panni. (hideous, not good!) He said I do not need to lose any more weight. He also said he can do both my thighs and arms with crescent incisions, which most likely wouldnt be covered by my insurance, and would cost in the neighborhood of $11,000 each surgery. SO, I probably will not be doing those. Diabetes=way improved, vitamins=I'm takin' them now and shopping=a problem!!Waiting to hear what my insurance has to say about all this. Progress pictures link and updates are on my profile. Muah! kisses and love to everyone, wish you all the best!
~Sue
Highest weight 235/228 day of surgery/134.5 lowest weight/ currently 142 lbs
Topic: RE: 2 years this month we are celebrating!
Hi Doreen
It is so nice to see how everyone is doing going on our two year anniversary to a new life. Can you believe it is already two years???? A lot has changed since September 21, 2004. I went from 265 lbs down to 150 lbs by the end of the first year. Then I discovered that I could tolerate sugar and chips and just plain old crap. So little by little the numbers on the scale began to increase back up to 175 lbs. I became so disgusted with myself because no matter how I tried my body began craving more and more sugar and crappy snacks. What was I to do???? Well, in May my insurance company approved my TT surgery. I had my TT done on June 27th. My surgeon who is also my WLSurgeon asked me what kind of a diet I wanted to be on in the hospital. I told him I wanted to start all over again just as I did as a new WLS patient. I figured cold turkey was the only way, and what better place to go through sugar withdrawls than in the hospital where I could not give in to my addiction. To make a long story short, I have lost 10 lbs off of my abdomen in skin alone, making my tummy for the most part flat except for when I swell up in the evening, which is normal for about 6 months to a year. I have also lost an additional 15 pounds bringing me back down to thin and trim 150 pounds. I am trying to get down another 5 pounds to reach my final goal but if I stay where I am I am perfectly content and happy. I watch everything I now eat. I no longer eat chocolate, ice cream, chips etc. I weigh myself every morning to keep myself in check and I enjoy the fact that I can now wear my shirts tucked in without seeing a tummy bulge popping out. I feel wonderful, have become a big time shopaholic which I need to now stop because I have so many beautiful clothes, shoes, boot, handbags, oh and high heels! Life is good and my only regret is that I did not have this surgery 20 years ago rather than waiting until I was 48 years old. This October I will be celebrating my 51st birthday and I no longer hide from anyone wanting to take my picture.
I wish everyone a very Happy Re-birthday and best wishes for continued happiness in the future!
Hugs
Marianne
Topic: RE: 2 years this month we are celebrating!
Well guess what, my anniversary is today. LOL I didn't even know what day it was. Happy Anniversary To Me!!!!
I am doing pretty good. I was down almost 200 pounds. I am currently 23 weeks pregnant with our second baby girl. I am thrilled and this pregnancy has been gret compared to my first one. We will be having a c-section on Dec. 20th providing she doesn't decide to come before then. I will be bringing her home Christmas Eve morning. My eating is pretty normal. Some days I eat more then others. Some days I don't want to eat at all. I will be planning some kind of plastics in the future but for now everything is on hold.
I think I am pretty healthy, no complaints except my vitamin D.
I hope everyone else is doing good.....
Shannon
Topic: RE: 2 years this month we are celebrating!
Doreen,
You have done so well. Congrats on your weight loss. I am doing great but I am dying to get a tummy tuck. My clothes will fit so much better after the tummy tuck. My ins. doesn't cover tummy tucks but I have a small umbilical hernia so ins. will probably cover the anesthesia and the hospital charges, just not the fee for the tummy tuck.
I have been on a major stall. I lost one lb in March and one lb in June. At least I am not gaining. I would really like to lose another 10 lbs, but I am happy if I don't. I wear mostly size 8 and I used to wear size 32.
Lynn J., lap RNY 9/29/04
306/146/135
5' 4"
Topic: 2 years this month we are celebrating!
Our success in our weight loss journey. Please let us all know how far you have come and the changes your surgery has made in your life. I am eager to hear how well everyone is doing. My surgery was 2 yrs ago today. I had gastric bypass. My weight was 474 and I am now at 233 meaning I have lost over half my size. My health is excellent and life is good. I still struggle with eating. I find I can tolerate some sugar and carbs which is my weakness. When I do eat I feel so guilty and pray the scale doesnt go up. I was on a major stall for over 9 months but since my remedial thigh lift, I find I am losing once again. Sometimes when looking in the mirror I see the person I was and I have trouble dealing with the fact that I have lost so much weight. I still deal with head hunger issues. Ah but when it comes to buying clothes.. I have no troubles. I went from a 5-6x size 52 top and pants and now can wear a size large 18-20 top and 20 pants. My pants have to be a size larger then I need due to the fact I still have severe lymphedema in my lower legs which makes them swell. Hopefully the plastic surgery will help with some of that. The only thing I hate is the severe excess skin hanging..Yuck! So tell me how you are all doing and I just want to say..Happy Rebirthday to all of you this month! Keep up the fantastic job!
Doreen
474/233/ my goal is 200
Topic: RE: Still Struggling after 2 years
I understand what you are going thru. I started at 474 and am now at 237. I have lost half my size but find I can sometimes eat more then I could in the beginning and then I get these guilt feelings. I feel as if I will never reach my goal weight. I had a remedial thigh lift done due to the excess skin hanging and hoping for another one soon to at least make my legs look a bit more normal. I think that is some of my problems. I used to feel so freakish when I was huge that it is hard for me to feel normal. I can see major differences in clothing sizes and in things I can do now that I could not do before. So I try to focus on that. If you feel like talking, email me anytime. Just remember how far you have come from this time 2 yrs ago.
Good luck!
Doreen
474/237/?