Hello My friends wls was 15mths ago!

Hi! After 15mths of having my wls I am doing well! I feel like the poster child of wls! Besides all the hassle getting a wls Dr and getting a lawyer to fight my insurance company after that everything has gone GREAT! Ok the first week after wls was far from great! Couldn't move ect.. Pain! Ya know what I want now? I just want to feel like a normal person! I feel like a fat person in a skinny persons body! No kidding! Most of the time when I am with a group of women I am the smallest one there. I feel guilty! I went from a size 24 to an 8 in the past year. No I do not miss the 125 lbs gone! I do feel lucky that I have found a guy who wants to know all about my wls and the rules ect.. about my new way of life, it does not bother him. I dated a guy for 3 yrs before wls, he could care less if I were dead or alive then or now so last yr right before wls I knew it was time to move on! Boy o Boy the things I have come across since dateing more and telling them about my wls after a few dates! Not many guys wanted to listen and not judge! I wore a size 9 but one guy said "he felt like he was dating a fat gal" That was the end of him! When he called back to say "Sorry' I excepted his applogy but not another date! Ok I have dated Kendall for over 2 mths now, he is real health food caring ect,, takes vitamins ect.. Worries a little to much about if I am getting all I need food wise and vitamin wise. My wls surgery has not been a problem for him! Now we have had a few tiffs but nothing big! Twice over parking! Sometimes in St Louis we have to pay $6-10 bucks to pay to park and sometimes the traffic is terrible! He gets real nervous about this! Upset when were down town in a crowd ect..So I have told him I am not inviting him to public large events! I can go with girlfriends! We are going to start visitng churches together to find one we can attend together! Now that I am excited about! Ok I will stop boring ya all! KEEP UP ALL THE HARD WORK! SEE YA LIGHTER! Cyndi

Thanks Cyndi for posting an update on you. It is nice to know what to expect post-op down the line. I am glad that everything is working out for you and your WL is absolutely fantastic....Keep up the good work! Erin