life is what you make it.

I have to stop feeling sorry for myself and learn to really enjoy others, I try to remind myself that life is 10% reality and 90% what we make it, or how we choose to view it and have it effect us. I will concentrate this week on "me" how I relate to others and how they may perceive me, as its easy to blame others when we are unhappy, but the true source of peace and happiness comes from within..Right?...I have areas in my life- things to work on -but "I" need to take ownership of them and work on what can I can do to make things better FIRST...Wt loss is a behavioral journey also..now that I can no longer bury by feelings in food...thanks for letting me "soul search" and as for work..things actually were better after I posted, so maybe it was a bit of paranoia (lol)..thanks for listening and the advise....peace..