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Topic: RE: How did your 18-month check up go?
I cancelled my 18 month because of the cancer I am going to the doctors all the time and didn't want to keep taking time off of work. When I go to get my blood work for the surgery my by pass doctors are getting some also and then they will go over it on the phone with me. Well I go to the plastic surgeon in a 1/2 hour. There is a proceedure where they use tissue on your abdomin for your new boobs. So I will ask about that. I just might get a tummy tuck and two new boobs all paid for by insurance. I guess you have to be careful about what you wish for. I will let you all know what he says tomorrow. I wonder how much pain it will be to have both breast removed reconstructed and a tummy tuck at the same time. I shurley will need lots of pain meds.
Hey I have a question for everyone, at the end of the day are you bloated and gassy? I am so gassy and bloated every day, I eat GAS-X like candy. I still also burp a lot. I don't drink soda or beer. I just burp like crazy at the dinner meal. I can eat better during the day then at night.
Well talk to you guys later,
Diana
Topic: RE: Plastics/tummy tuck/complications
Oh Kim! I hope they figure out what is bothering your body! Glad to hear the tummy looks good though! Do they think it could be in infection in your incision?? I will be sending good thoughts and well wishes your way darlin!
Lori
PS I can't wait to see the pics!!
Topic: RE: How did your 18-month check up go?
My surgeon didn't schedule me for an 18 month check up, just a 2 year check up, so I have no idea what my labs would look like right now.
I'm on month 3 of my recommitment - calorie restricting, no bad carbs, low fat. I need to up my excersise, all I get in right now is walking. I started back to using my tanning bed this week. All the clothes I got at the thirft store last summer and never got small enough to wear fit now. I'm in a size 8 in almost everything, 10 in a few things still. I've passed my surgeon's goal and am working towards my goal(s). Planning on going out of country next spring/summer for plastic surgery, that's the soonest we can afford it. I want a tummy tuck, breast lift (doesn't look like I'll need augmentation), and a little lipo on my upper thigh/hip area.
Hope everyone is doing well! Hugs to you all!
Connie
8/01/05 RNY
269 at surgery/163 surgeon's goal/150 my first goal/160 current weight
Topic: RE: Plastics/tummy tuck/complications
Oh, Kim! I'm so sorry to hear you're having complications! Please keep us updated, you're in my thoughts sweetie.
Love ya,
Connie
Topic: Plastics/tummy tuck/complications
hi all! i havent updated like i promised but ive been really sick latley. I was having severe tummy pain and my husband had to call 911. well, they dont know what the problem. i eneded up being in the hospital for 3 days on morphine. 3 dr.s argued about whether or not my bowell was knicked. my gastric bypass dr stood his ground and said he disnt see the AIR in my abdomen and he was going in to "look". i went his route and im doing much better, now, BUT, by white count is up, so they may have to cancel the breast lift/augmentation for march 30 if it doesnt go down. ill keep you posted, and ill betaking more updated pics of my tummy tuck soon. It looks awesome!
love u all!
Kim
Topic: How did your 18-month check up go?
I passed with flying colors! My doc said that I am doing great and am a model patient! Of course I didn't tell him that I haven't exercised in a lonnnnnng time! But my blood work came back perfect. My weight was 158 on their scale. The nurse told me that it weighs everyone about 5 lbs heavy since we have to weigh with our shoes and clothes on! So with the difference, I was 153!
I have to admit that I have been grazing alot more. Sometimes I feel like I have eaten my way through the entire day. But when I actually sit down and remember all that I have eaten, it's really not alot. I might have a couple pieces of fruit, or a couple of handfuls of nuts in between my meals. I tend to eat breakfast really late. My usual breakfast is a 24oz nonfat sugarfree hazelnut latte every morning. I eat around 10:30 or so. I have been having scrambled eggs (2) topped with cheese and chopped ham. Lots of protein! Then I have a Lean Cuisine for lunch. In the afternoon is when I graze it seems. And that dreaded time in between dinner and bedtime. I know it's bad but I actually do get hungry. I am still averaging less than 1000 calories a day so I don't think I am doing too terribly bad.
How are you all doing? Seems like our board has died a little bit. I know how it is being busy with our lives and just not having the time to post anymore. I do read daily and try and answer some of the posts.
Take care everyone. I hope we are all doing fantastic!
Lori
Topic: RE: Hey all my August '05 folks...haven't checked in here in some time...
Hey, 155 lbs down and looking to have plastic surgery now. This is my goal and it is very exciting to me. I hope you all are fine.
Busy working hard, running around alot, lots of energy. I was 370 at the beginning and am now 225 and go up and down about 10 lbs. Find myself eatting more boo hoo so have to put the stop to that.
Showing you all love...
Sha
Topic: RE: Hey all my August '05 folks...haven't checked in here in some time...
Hi Georgia- glad to see you posted ..Congrats on your new life and lifestyle..as for me~ I never really got close to my goal~ 145 . As it is Im still 50lbs away from that- but I began at 325 & just broke into Onederland at 18mos~ so Im still working on my program and learning balance.
I had hit a plateau- for several mos- gaining and losing and re-gaining the same 5-10lbs. I realized I needed a change- so I changed gyms- going where they offer 140 classes weekly + personal training dynamics + a great environment. I figured if they can offer 140 a week- I should be able to get my butt in there- at least 3-4times a week. I was already doing 2-3 days/wk at my old gym- but under challenged.. The result? I began working out every day- beginning with 30mins to as much as 2hrs..and trying to hit one class a day.I have taken beginning- intermed and advanced classes - in kickboxing-stability ball- classic aerobic- hip hop funk aerobic-rebounding with a mini trampoline -body sculpting. I haven't gotten to spinning, yoga or pilates yet either. My point is - I made it a priority- and lost 10lbs in 3 weeks & cracked Onderland! The first time in 25yrs. I have lost 130lbs and am not entirely happy. I thought I would be further along ( on the scale) Yes with my fitness success and ability to keep off the weight- even at 18mos ~ YES I am
What I hear on this board- and see in my bi-monthly support meetings- is that everyone has changed their focus while increasing their lifestyle. Before surgery-
everyrone worked hard to be disciplined and stick to the Four Rules:
Protein, Water, Exercise & Vitamin/Supplements. Everyone had a busy life Before surgery- whats changed is your level of committment - it got lower. You forgot about
keeping the idea- that the lifestyle change wasn't "until you lost all your weight" and revert back to old behaviors- this was a "mode of living change- a lifestyle change" One that had to be accepted beyond your weight loss goals.
So- if you are having problems sticking with your lifestyle- take the time to review what you are doing- that is different from what you know you should do - and make the corrections- one at a time- just like you did before surgery. 30mins a day is not a lot to put aside for exercise. Keep this in mind- its about your health- not just your weight.
Also know this- (from someone who has exercised in my 20s,30s, 40s & now 50)
you can have 2 people- one weighs 150 and one weighs 200. The person@200 exercises regularly and is in better health- than the person who weighs 150 & does nothing. It's your health- where do you want to be? How do you plan on staying there?
I am 50- I exercise 6-7 days a week and know how good I feel when I leave the gym
and can't put a price on that. Im glad Im around to see my 22yrld son begin to fulfill his career ambitions. I'm not happy with my weight number- but I started at 325 & BMI= 56% and now am 198 with a BMI=34%. My surgeon said for me to be considered successful- I have to be 30-35% BMI. I would like to be between 25-30%, so that is my level of committment. To keep going- even though I am already successful.
So I hope I have helped encourage you & others on this board- to keep diligent and appreciate what you have- and to keep it-so that you don't have to worry about numbers on a scale. We are all worth more than mere numbers.
Donna
325/198/145
Topic: RE: Hey all my August '05 folks...haven't checked in here in some time...
Hey, I know what you mean about old habits b/c sugar doesn't usually do anything to me and I know too many carbs, argh!!! According to Dr's scale I'm down 95 lbs but I vary alot b/c of cycle. I don't weigh often b/c my scale is cheap and doesn't agree with other scales.
I would do it again in a second. I am soooo much healthier -- no diabetes, high blood pressure or acid reflux meds!!! I do have caffeine so I should do more water. I would totally love plastics!!! Batwings, angelwings, whatever you call them you got to hate them and why are all the cute shirts you can now fit in have those itsy bitsy sleeves, c'mon I can wear a medium now but I need a decent sleeve. We need a line of gastric bypass clothes for people who can't afford plastics -- ME! I think my tummy tucked would be my #1 then angelwings (though I go back & forth with those 2) and then thighs. A lift would be nice for the girls but a good bra can do that and I'm married almost 19 years so hubby is the only one to see them.
Exercise -- I just don't have the time. I know it sounds like an excuse but one of the main reasons I had this surger was to be able to keep up with my boys (besides the health stuff) I am putting in alot of time working with my local autism society for our first big event -- a Walk of Hope. I'm also on the board of directors, teach 10th grade religion once a week, help out with Boy Scouts, not to mention a full time job and trying to keep up with the house. My family is so busy it's hard to keep up with it all and doesn't leave much time for exercise. I want my magic genie to make it where I can just volunteer as a full time job and then my plastics!!!! I figure my boys will be in college before I know it and I want to spend my time enjoying being a family.
I will attempt to check in here more often. At my 1 1/2 appt I had lost 5 lbs since the last one. I fluctuate but I'm pretty satisfied though I'd like to get rid of my incisional hernia b/c it's at my waist and I could go down a size if it would go away. Skin is not so good but I guess not so bad considering my age -- turned 42 two days after my surgery. Definitely the BEST thing I've ever done, no contest.
Topic: RE: Hey all my August '05 folks...haven't checked in here in some time...
Hey Georgia,
Life is great and I am so happy I had this surgery!! I have lost 110 to 115 pounds...giving the time of month. I am wanting to do plastics, but I have a trip to Hawaii scheduled and that took away some of my funds for getting arm done, so I'll wait for 6 months. Although, if someone were to give me three wishes (magic genie, where are you?) I would have my arms (batwings) gone! Tummy tucked and thighs done...then if they were really generous, I might have the girls fixed up a bit. I'm small but "saggy" baby!!
I have people ask me all the time if I would do it again and the answer is a huge YYYYEEEESSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IN A HEARTBEAT SECOND! I feel amazing, although I'm not happy with my body at times, I have never felt better in my life. Even as a child, I got winded and tired because I was fat! Now, life is so enjoyable.
Like you, I have problems with old habits and I need to watch it carefully...we all do. Life is wonderful though. I guess the biggest struggle for me is seeing what everyone else sees when they look at me. I had a man say to me the other day that I was beautiful and another one say I looked sexy...that just doesn't compute for me. I don't feel like I look beautiful or sexy. I see myself as pretty, but beautiful is for someone like my bosses wife or Jennifer Love Hewitt. That's beautiful. And sexy, well, I know I wear sexier clothing, but if they saw the clothes off, whew, would they run screaming or laughing...not sure which!
Anyway, my issues come from how I see myself, but they always have. Maybe one day, I'll understand who the real me is and like her inside (which I already do) and outside (which I am desperately working on!).
Take care,
Lori
293/180/150