What do you think I should do?

Hey August mates! I work in a 2 person office and my boss is wonderful. We have a client and he is single. He came in on Monday and has always been sweet to me. The last time he saw me was in April 2005 and I hadn't had surgery yet. Well, I am looking and feeling better about myself and really would like to go on a date with this guy. My boss said he was surprised that I didn't ask him on Monday. I was kinda of waiting for him to ask me because I didn't want to seem forward. My boss said that his wife was the one who asked him on their first date. What do you all think? By the way, he never said a word, but his eyes told me that he thought I looked great. He is very shy, but once we get talking, we have a wonderful time. I have only seen him here in the office, but I know that he loves ballet, musical events, church, was raised by his aunt and uncle after his parents died and has 4 other brothers. All this information and we only see each other 2 times a year. Yeah think I really like this guy? Yeah, me too! Lori 293/237/135

Hi Lori! I say GO FOR IT!! Good Luck! kim

Lori, I really think you should ask him. If he is shy you might wait for a long time for him to ask you. Diana 263/198/135

Take the plunge and ask him out. Obviously you two hit it off, why not talk over dinner rather than in the office. So are you going to see him again soon, or will it be a while. What a great way to start the new year. Good luck & keep us posted. Tammy Isn't the new found confidence great????? 291/284 day of surgery/220/145

Hi Tammy, I have invited him to hear my boss speak about how he survived his accident on 1/11/06 at a local church that he was asked to speak at. I thought that would be a good non-threatening way to begin. Then I thought I'd see if he wants to get coffee after that. He really wants to hear the story behind this accident and we can sit together during the talk. Well, I figure it's a start away from the office anyway. I'll keep you posted on this. Thanks to everyone for the encouragement. I believe I'll take your adivce and go for it! Lori 293/236/135