sex drive???
Okay, I am so glad you posted this message.
I have been overweight most of my adult life and yet, have never had a proble with getting attention from the opposite sex (or the same sex, for that matter). I am a HUGE Flirt - and I love it! When my husband first met me, he thought I was the biggest **** aorund becuase all of my friends were guys.
Anyway... my sex drive has always been healthy. That was until about 6 weeks post-op and then I became a mad woman. If my husband even looked at me in a lusting way I was repulsed. It was frustrating for me because I couldn't change the way I felt. It was even more frustrating for my husband - I found myself doing nothing but apologizing to him.
That lasted for about 3 weeks and I am happy to say we're out of that slump. Call me crazy, but changing my eating really did it. I upped the fruits & vegetables and also changed the timeof the day that I was taking my vitamins. I also made sure to get enough water, which I had been struggling with.
My husband knows how I like to flirt and we've already discussed that I can do it as much as I want - just not in front of him
I hope that those of you who are not feeling the urge get past that soon. I was amazed what a difference 50 less pounds could make.
Take care,
Jen