4.5 years out and my surgery needed to be fixed!
Hi there. I had surgery in Jan 2001. shortly after needed to have the stomach opening enlarged as nothing was going through. long story short, I hit my lowest about 2 1/2 years ago at 139 and now slowly have gone back up to almost 160. How do you know when your stoma is large? I feel like i don't get the full feeling anymore.. I still get full with certain things, chicken, noodles, and rice are culprits along with meatballs, to the point of uncomfortable. but i am able sometimes to eat more than 1/2 sandwich which was my maximum before. the last thing i want is to have more surgery. but I really feel bad about gaining about 20 pounds. i also had different things going on, neck injury at work and other stress related issues which probably compounded things and reduced my ability to exercise. And now am also dealing with a sabotaging husband buying all kinds of snacks and crap that we don't need around the house, this was a problem before surgery as well. i have nagged pleaded and argued about him buying that stuff. but it falls on deaf ears. By the way i did just get back this forum but it's all new to me and I couldn't find anyone around my surgery date who seemed to be having the same issues. thanks for any and all suggestions!!