Any July surgery dates?
My surgery is July 28! Currently, I am feeling excited and ready. I feel like I've drawn my line in the sand, & had enough.
i never thought about writing a letter to my family. Only my Husband and 2 friends know I'm doing this. My parents would totally disapprove.
Do you tell all your friends & family? I guess I don't want to hear the disapproval, etc...
I struggled with telling. I spent weeks going back and forth between telling my parents versus not telling them. I was certain that they would not only disapprove, but might even try to talk me out of it. I eventually did tell them, and they could not have been more supportive. As far as telling anyone else, I am very very selective; my husband, obviously, one sibling, and 4 friends. I decided that I didn't want to have to constantly "explain" everything. Also, this sort of thing is very polarizing and everyone has a strong opinion. For me I just felt like it's already difficult enough without having to constantly defend my decision. Wish you well on finding what is best for you!