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Topic: RE: Shut Up!!! That dress is what size?
Isn't it great??? I am still in denial on sizes. I go right for the big sizes and forget that I don't wear them anymore! I think shopping is so much fun. I do most of mine at Good Will though because I know I am still losing and I don't want to spend a lot on things I won't be wearing for long. I can't wait to wear something in "normal sizes" at a retail store.
I am so proud of you! I bet you looked beautiful in your new clothes! Congrats and keep up the great job!
Valerie
I am so proud of you! I bet you looked beautiful in your new clothes! Congrats and keep up the great job!
Valerie
Topic: RE: Just curious....how old are you?
I think you are doing great!!! I am 33 and am losing more on average than my 26 year old friend. I think it has more to do with body type and genetics than age. Maybe age plays a small role in it but it's just a tiny bit of it. Keep up the good work!!
Topic: RE: 4 months out and needing to talk
Kriste,
Don't beat yourself up, you're doing great!
I'm feeling a little out of control lately too but mine is from NOT eating enough calories and forgetting to take all my vitamins. All of a sudden, I'm really noticing the thinning hair and it's FREAKING me out. I'm finding hair everywhere! Thank goodness it was thick to start with or I'd be bald right now.
Don't beat yourself up, you're doing great!
I'm feeling a little out of control lately too but mine is from NOT eating enough calories and forgetting to take all my vitamins. All of a sudden, I'm really noticing the thinning hair and it's FREAKING me out. I'm finding hair everywhere! Thank goodness it was thick to start with or I'd be bald right now.
Topic: RE: Who makes these sizes anyway?
Frustrating! I went through that stage too. 1x's were too big but my boobs wouldn't fit into a regular sized XL. It will pass quickly and you'll be fitting into things before you know it.
Topic: RE: Living between the stalls
Julie,
I feel the exact same way. I'm pleased with my progress so far and I know, realistically, that my weight loss will slow down as I creep closer to goal. I've been stuck at the same weight for over two weeks and I want to stomp the scale every morning, and yet, I'm thankful for all the little moments in this journey!
I feel the exact same way. I'm pleased with my progress so far and I know, realistically, that my weight loss will slow down as I creep closer to goal. I've been stuck at the same weight for over two weeks and I want to stomp the scale every morning, and yet, I'm thankful for all the little moments in this journey!
Topic: RE: Living between the stalls
Julie, you are doing so well. Keep up the good work. It's those little changes that we're making which will make a huge difference in our lives and our ultimate goals :-) Keep on keepin' on Julie.
Topic: RE: Just curious....how old are you?
Hi Joanna,
I do the same thing, daily weigh in and I can't help it :-) I get discouraged for just a fleeting moment and I take one step and I figure, it's OK, it's just 1 lb up and eventually it'll go back down for good. It's like a dang teeter totter with this up and down stuff :-) I'm hangin' in there w/ya girl.
I do the same thing, daily weigh in and I can't help it :-) I get discouraged for just a fleeting moment and I take one step and I figure, it's OK, it's just 1 lb up and eventually it'll go back down for good. It's like a dang teeter totter with this up and down stuff :-) I'm hangin' in there w/ya girl.
Topic: RE: 4 months out and needing to talk
Your weight loss is great...you are about to pass me in weight in the RIGHT direction!
You are not alone. For me, I've gotten back to somewhat of a normal life. I can eat (taste) anything so I have to control myself. I think I am one of those that won't dump. I've had 7-8 g of sugar (dried fruit) and NO ILL EFFECTS, but I'm not pushing it!
I don't even like to eat. It takes too long and it so much easier to just grab a shake. I travel a lot and when I'm with others that don't know about my RNY, it is kinda weird. They all know I'm being careful to eat healthy,
I have not been good about my exercise and I am paying the price. I have lost lots in my leggs and butt and since I really had little muscle tone, I find it uncomfortable to sit for long periods of time...and I have a sit job.
I have all but stopped keeping my food log - which is bad.
But, the good news is I am in control. If I want to taste, I do. Most of the time I find that stuff I used to love just doesn't do it for me anymore. Rules and absolutes were always my enemy. I have to learn that all of life is about balance. If I forget to take my vitamins today, it's ok...I just need to start tomorrow and try to do better. I try to carry my vitamins around in a snack size baggie. I'm not tied to a strick schedule (except keeping iron away from calcium) and it helps me to get them all in.
You are doing great. No guilt. No beating yourself up. Give yourself some grace. Keep in touch with us and your support groups.
You have identified all this before it became a problem! That is part of your success.
I too am so fearful that I will return to my bad habits and have to guard against it everyday.
HUGS!!
jk
You are not alone. For me, I've gotten back to somewhat of a normal life. I can eat (taste) anything so I have to control myself. I think I am one of those that won't dump. I've had 7-8 g of sugar (dried fruit) and NO ILL EFFECTS, but I'm not pushing it!
I don't even like to eat. It takes too long and it so much easier to just grab a shake. I travel a lot and when I'm with others that don't know about my RNY, it is kinda weird. They all know I'm being careful to eat healthy,
I have not been good about my exercise and I am paying the price. I have lost lots in my leggs and butt and since I really had little muscle tone, I find it uncomfortable to sit for long periods of time...and I have a sit job.
I have all but stopped keeping my food log - which is bad.
But, the good news is I am in control. If I want to taste, I do. Most of the time I find that stuff I used to love just doesn't do it for me anymore. Rules and absolutes were always my enemy. I have to learn that all of life is about balance. If I forget to take my vitamins today, it's ok...I just need to start tomorrow and try to do better. I try to carry my vitamins around in a snack size baggie. I'm not tied to a strick schedule (except keeping iron away from calcium) and it helps me to get them all in.
You are doing great. No guilt. No beating yourself up. Give yourself some grace. Keep in touch with us and your support groups.
You have identified all this before it became a problem! That is part of your success.
I too am so fearful that I will return to my bad habits and have to guard against it everyday.
HUGS!!
jk
Topic: Who makes these sizes anyway?
Who are these clothes supposed to fit? I have probably always said that. Plus size garments that only fit people over 7 feet tall. Shirts that are so short they don't cover...well all the things we want it to cover. Straps and strapless... well I degress.....
I am at the point that I am venturing outside of the plus size arena. Plus size is getting too big (never thought I'd say that!), but when I go to the women's sections, there is no way I'm fitting in them! There doesn't seem to be any inbetween. It also appears that finding 16W and 14W is going to be a bit of a challenge.
So for now, I guess I'm back to wearing clothes that don't fit for a little while. Keeping just my basic black slacks as my staple for now.
This too shall pass....thanks for letting me vent. =o)~
I am at the point that I am venturing outside of the plus size arena. Plus size is getting too big (never thought I'd say that!), but when I go to the women's sections, there is no way I'm fitting in them! There doesn't seem to be any inbetween. It also appears that finding 16W and 14W is going to be a bit of a challenge.
So for now, I guess I'm back to wearing clothes that don't fit for a little while. Keeping just my basic black slacks as my staple for now.
This too shall pass....thanks for letting me vent. =o)~