I have a trainer for weight lifting.. I wanted to properly learn the correct way to gain some muscle mass.. then after that .. I'm cutting them.. LOL.. I can then do it on my own!!

I agree.....I am at 193 and I am not in a size 12 yet!  I am in a 16 and probably could wear some 14s depending on how they are made.  You have come a long way and you cannot compare yourself to anyone else!  This is your dream and you shouldn't look at anyone else to compare b/c this should be all about you!  Your doing GREAT so keep up the good work!

I had a double shot of Jagermeister 2 months out of surgery.  I sipped it slowly over about an hour's time and felt nothing other than the warm sensation as it burned my insides.  Wasn't even buzzed and it got warm and nasty..so that satisfied my curiosity!

You are very SILLY!  Very funny stuff. Do you still have the canary yellow draws or did you kick them to the curb? ha, ha

I wasn't trying to sound harsh or critize. I just want to know why she isn't exercising. Exercise is key role in our weight loss journey. Even if it is walking, sitting from a chair doing exercise. I use to be a slacker too. I start exercising before my surgery on recumbent bike and now I have step up my exercise too. some days I just get in the recumbent bike and walking and other days I can easily get in 2 hours of mix of things. I want to encourage anyone to start some type of exercise no matter how small it is and each week try to increase it. I am here support you and help motivate to exercise as well. I know how hard it is to motivate I have issues with that yet but I will try my best to work out daily. At least 6 days out of 7. If I get in 7 that is awesome. Once it becomes routine than it becomes a part of our daily lives. Just like learning to eat again with a smaller pouch. So take one step at a time! Good luck!